I know what you're thinking and no I don't swing the other way. Just looking for some advice on how to recover from denying a girl sex, which come to find out from her own mouth the next day she really wanted.
I'll try and keep this short and to the point.
So this true 9 and I met at work about 3 months ago after she transferred into my job from another location. Co-worker of mine took it upon herself to make sure we met and I got her number.
We'd text back and forth several times a week and flirt at work. But it really never amounted to anything, especially since we flaked out on each other a few times. After that I really didn't try to game her up, and then yesterday happened.
her: clocked out to go home yet?
me: Ya. I'm finally off. woop woop!
her: cool cool. what you doing later?
me: food, video games, and then hw. how bout you?
her: hw right now. sit ups, facial and a shower. followed by hours of lotion and moisturizer. join me?
me: i duno how much of that you'd actually get done if I was there. but i'm down.
her: haha. we can do our facials together and read to each other while we do situps and then a hotass shower.
me: duno bout the facials part but everything else sounds good, including the hotass shower.
her: only if we can lotion each other up after
me: oh there's plenty we can do after
her: hmm...like what
me: start off with a nice back rub. use my strong hands to relieve some Tension n work my way around.
her: that sounds awesome tell me more
me: naw i'll just show you next time
her: when's next time? i'd rather know now?
me: you'll know when it happens. it'll be a suprise.
her: i feel attracted to you differently now...weird
me: it'll be worth the wait muahaha
her: what am i gonna do with you? wish i could fast forward time and know the worth sooner.
me: well it was sweet of you to invite me to your hot ass shower. so sweet, if i ran out of jolly ranchers i would suck on you.
her: you like jolly ranchers?
me: with a passion
her: fantastic...so you going to bed soon or u down for a mission?
me: depends if you're part of it
her: oh yes babe. i say we sneak out and enjoy a midnight snack.
Needless to say, I picked her up, we started talking and then things got hot and heavy in the backseat. Now, crown me as the world's biggest dumbass but I wasn't sure how far this chic was willing to go. Mind you looking back, she was dropping the biggest hints EVER. Unzipping my sweater, tugging up at my shirt, taking off her short shorts and showing me her lingerie. Not wanting to seem easy to her, I sat there like an Amish prick named Jebediah Smith and didn't give up any real estate. We exchanged hickies and nothing more.
The next day we get to talking and she tells me she's frustrated because she really wanted me inside her. I couldn't believe it. Then she said it was ok because we're coworkers and it'd be weird for her to work with someone she'd slept with and that she wanted to wait till she had a ring on her finger but not really. I was like wtf...
So my question is...can I rebound from this?