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    dinorod Guest

    Default Told her that i liked her

    it was are 3rd date within two weeks, the second date she asked me out which i thought was good.maybe shes interested i thought.
    3rd date went very smoothly have a great laugh made her giggle like always.
    On the way home i brought up an old conversation which we had about knowing what we knew when we knew it, i said i knew. so she asked what did i know.
    Now i said i like you, i think ur really great an amazing laugh/person.
    She had a huge smile on her face and chuckled but didnt say nothing she said bye when i got her to her front door.
    Txt'd her night when i got in and she txtd me back saying night.
    Now theres nothing, i txt'd her to see how she was today and if she had a great night like i always do after a date with her.
    Basically i think ive scared her off or freaked her out a little...or maybe she is thinking who knows.
    what gets me is that smile and her not saying anything.
    What do you guys think?? cuz i think im going to be moving on LOL

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    alphastorm Guest

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    damn idk i wish i had an answer. hopefully someone more experienced will jump on this

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    Post Re: Told her that i liked her

    Quote Originally Posted by dinorod View Post
    great night like i always do after a date with her.
    Basically i think ive scared her off or freaked her out a little...or maybe she is thinking who knows.
    what gets me is that smile and her not saying anything.
    What do you guys think?? cuz i think im going to be moving on LOL

    I think there are a few possibilities, IF she's freaked out or maybe she is only checking out if you are after her, but it might be a case of a little insecure girl who does not know exactly what you mean by now. AFter all you did not k-closed her yet. She did not gave an answer when you said you enjoyed her presence and her being but wiped it off with a smile before going to the door. If it is not an insecurity it might be a case of Catstring Theory, but i guess she would have reacted different in that case (she would have been more frank of something) so i bet on the insecure girl type.

    Now it is not totally clear to me about this freaking out this but if you letterly text her with:
    'Did you had a great night, like i always do after a date with you' if so, it might be that she is indeed a bit creeped out because it could mean a lot of things surrounding jerking and dirtysecret other stuff. But since you havent said that, i guess she is just testing you a bit to see if you are running after her ass (sounds like Catstring again).

    There is no reason for her to be done with you since you have not been needish or (over)touchy with her. If she is not testing your needishness, she is balancing the (possible) happenings between the two of you and is overthinking her needishness for your presence.

    Enjoy her ever circling head as long as it takes and if you seek contact, keep it short but smooth. Dont fall on your mouth over this little (dis)misunderstandme nt

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    dinorod Guest

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    Enjoy her ever circling head as long as it takes and if you seek contact, keep it short but smooth. Dont fall on your mouth over this little (dis)misunderstandme nt
    Yeah im not going to contact her, might take a while lol. Her friend keeps saying to me ask her out, but its difficult if to agree with her, mainly cuz i dont know whats been said.
    If you have a girl you liked and her friend said ask her out? Would you? even if your unsure if they actually like you

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    Sporty Guest

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    It's funny that there are so many of us who subscribe to the notion of not buying girls drinks because it dlv's, but yet some of us will take them out on date after date without so much as a k-close. I did that sh-t right after my ex wife and I split up - met a total HB10, and stupidly started taking her out to nice dinners and parading her around without so much as a k-close. After the second date, plus a couple of casual run-ins, I realized that this was a bunch of horse dung. I was buying her dinner and drinks and everything else and getting nothing in return especially since our only conversations were booking our next dates. Shortly after that I got into reading "The Game" and realized where I went wrong. I may have flipped too far the other way, but right now I'm making it a point to not buy dinner, theater tickets, etc. until I have at least k-closed. The way I see it, I'm not going to waste my time courting someone who's just looking for a free lunch.


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