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    ohanrahan Guest

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    Ok so I started a new job 2 weeks ago, last week we had our xmas party and I ended up kissing one of the girls from the office.
    Now I work on her team and fully intended something to happen there so I had laid the ground work, got ioi's, phone number etc. before the party. I'm not new to this by any means,

    Back at work I mention it in conversation and she kind of plays like she doesn't want to talk about it, not negatively just seems kind of shy about it.

    So I continue gaming her, office email, phone calls etc. which goes ok but not great

    Where do I go from here? I am interested in her but I'm stuck.
    I tried getting a text convo going after hours but to no avail. I'll walk away if she's not interested of course but I sense there is something else I could try.

    Thanks for reading!

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    Raven Guest

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    I have a similar problem. A girl a sarged at a hotel bar a few weeks ago, and who is also in a class of mine and in a club on campus that I am in, was all over me one week. She kept texting and joking with me, particularly if I showed up to class late. I told her one day to come to class 10 minutes early because I wanted to play a game, and she didn't really reply to it. She didn't come, then later that day she did not respond to my text. Then, 2 nights ago she was all real interested in me again at a club meeting. I have no idea how to deal with this one. Should I bust on her for not responding the next time I see her? Perhaps telling her "I understand" in regards to her narcolepsy and forgetfulness or alzheimers? When a girl does not respond in a chat, I accuse her of being narcoleptic or of having flatlined, and it always starts things back up, perhaps I should try this with text?

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    Varka Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raven View Post
    I have a similar problem. A girl a sarged at a hotel bar a few weeks ago, and who is also in a class of mine and in a club on campus that I am in, was all over me one week. She kept texting and joking with me, particularly if I showed up to class late. I told her one day to come to class 10 minutes early because I wanted to play a game, and she didn't really reply to it. She didn't come, then later that day she did not respond to my text. Then, 2 nights ago she was all real interested in me again at a club meeting. I have no idea how to deal with this one. Should I bust on her for not responding the next time I see her? Perhaps telling her "I understand" in regards to her narcolepsy and forgetfulness or alzheimers? When a girl does not respond in a chat, I accuse her of being narcoleptic or of having flatlined, and it always starts things back up, perhaps I should try this with text?
    In that case I would go aggro with a little of tease in it. I would say something like "I would go but I should get even with you for last time".

    She'll most likely going to text back like "what do you mean?" or something and she'll try to play it out and just wing it from there but in the end go ahead and take her up on it.

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    Sporty Guest

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    To the OP,

    Freeze Out and come back to it. If she blows you off again freeze out longer. Don't get one-itis, just go about your game and make her realize you're not "misinterpreting " a one time kiss as something more. She may really like you, but is uncomfortable with having made out with you at a party and think you're just trying to f her.

    Raven, I don't know about what others do on here, but I don't acknowledge when I text or fb chat and don't get a reply. Again, I freeze out for a day or two and re-open with a cocky funny text. One that recently worked for me after a three day freezeout to a non-response from a text is "Hey I'm really sorry about last night" the response was "What?" I replied "I know I should have called and told you I wasn't gonna make it over, I just lost track of time. I know you worked hard over that dinner you cooked us -- I promise I'll make it up to you next time." (We had never been out, but she was cool and played along, saying I had to cook next time.)

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    ohanrahan Guest

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    Hey Sporty,

    Thanks for the reply.

    The Freeze Out is a good idea but its difficult as we work fairly closely together at the moment so it's hard to keep it strictly 'work talk'.
    I'll try a cocky funny text tonight, see what the response is.

    Now to make it more complicated I have a gf already but I don't want the girl from work to find out.

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    meetpeter Guest

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    hey guys,
    i have just joined and i like the concept.
    sounds good to me!!!!!


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