I appreciate and welcome any advice on how to make a friend a girlfriend in long distance.
Just a little about myself.
I tend to say hi to a lot of women just a friendly guy. Yeah I am the nice guy.
Im 36 and I find I tend to let girlfriends control me. I am the guy who has the disese of one itis.
Its funny when Im not there boyfriend I can be cocky funny but as soon as it is a relationship I fall hard to quick and tend to get a little to needy. I always thought giving my time to a women was inportant however now I am seeing the light.
I have started to read alot of the pick up artists books videos etc. I am trying to build my self esteem and confidence in myself again.
I have a situation I really need some pointers or help with.
I am interested in a girl from Korea whom I have known for almost 2 years she was dating someone who I knew. I have been interested in her for awhile.She broke up with the guy and I met her a few times after that. However I had to move back to Canada for employment. A week before I left I told her I liked her and gave her reasons why. She said she is interested but at this time we are going through changes. we have been staying in touch for 2 months now.However she told me the other day she is seeing someone.I called her 2 days later and asked her about it. I was surprised how she answered my question she said " I dont really know why I am with him it wont last long maybe a month or 2.As well She said she was worried I would not talk to her anymore.
What I need to know is how can I change this situation where she is chasing me.Im usually the one who calls and texts so the past few days I havent.
How can I get this girl to think of me and want me?
I asked her if she could come to Canada and she said ok. So I am sending her photos of the places I want to share with her. Is this ok?
Also the other day she was upset that I called so much over the weekend as she wasnt answering, and I became worried.This is before she told me about the other guy. So I spoke to her and apologized and we are good now. She told me she has to study hard this week so I havent really tried to contact her. It is really hard.
TO BE HONEST I AM THE NICE GUY WHO IS MAKING THE NICE GUY MISTAKES AND DONT KNOW HOW TO STOP.
Thank you for any help or advice..
I really like this girl and I dont want to repeat the same mistakes I have made with previous relationships.