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  1. #11
    Moof Guest

    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    I agree. But heres what i got plan let me know if its wack or not.

    So over the last phone convo she told me her schedule pretty much. She works till 10pm on sunday. I plan on rolling this text thread to her aroiund 1030ish.

    Me:"What do they even serve at (the bar she works at) besides booze?... squid? Forget that they even have food or not. (clearly are not a sushi place)

    Her: blah blah blah

    Me: I have a confession to make

    Her: blah blah ?

    (wait an hour)

    Me: i may or may not have a tiny, small, little crush on u


    This seems to be playfull and could generate some attraction hopefully. This is a line my friend said works everytime with him and his friends. What do yall think of the text? and the Sunday timing? After the crush line if i get a response. should i go for a hangout text? or just leave it.

    i figure that sunday in college is always homework night and she will be glued to her phone. Plus it is a decent amount of time between mondays phone call, too show that im not needy and i have a life.

  2. #12
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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    i think its totally weak and AFC. its a try hard method to say u like her but to stay playful and all. i think i remember doing this in middle school once.
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  3. #13
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    I second crob. It comes off AFC. I like the concept of telling the girl you have a confession to make and waiting an hour. That's classic suspense building! But you need a better follow up. Maybe something funny.

  4. #14
    Moof Guest

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    Ok well im prolly going to Axe that whole idea. Im just going to do the first line ( poking fun of where she works) and after some blah blahs ask for date, something low compliance cause i know finals are coming up for her, shes pre-med too. Give her two days to choose from. If it doesnt work for her those days, i will simply ask when is she free. If no than fuck it. She can ask me when shes ready. I think she doesnt like the try hard texts. My sister told me that if some guy used the "wifey" or the "cheat on you " text, it would turn her off (i know this opinion is bias) but i think ill just play it cool.

    Last time i made contact with her, i let her know that i wanted to see her by asking her out again. if she doesnt respond well to my texts im going to shoot out on sunday. Then i will no how i stand. If she aint interested at all, noo response-24 hour delayed response, or she acceots.. what ever. i will know forsure in a couple days.. ALL IN.

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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    your sister said that it wouldnt work? pssshh i havent had a single girl that when warmed up hasnt absolutely loved the wifey roleplay texting especially when i talk about divorcing her or marriage fights. it is very bias. but no i would go with your idea just change the end. shit to make it funny and make her work for it. just text non shalant after the hour and be like "hey whats up" she will being it up and u just say. oh i forgot. she will more than likely try to pull it out of you
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  6. #16
    Moof Guest

    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    I think she may have turned back into a short fuse. I sent out this mass text to a couple girls. Jersey shore is a guilty pleasure that i share with both these girls. i text out
    "Ahaha the situation has a new work out dvd coming out. im soo putting that on my xmas list for sure."

    Both of the HBs texted back insgtantly including this one.
    This one said HB9: "Hahaha! Do it! And we would be able to get his six pack"

    I sent this out to test her interest. I thought that i needed to see if she still responded the same way after our most recent phone call. She was quick with the response again and was into it. The "we" drop, although may be insignificant, seems to show some investment/hint of interest. I now feel comfortable asking her for a date again. If she wasnt interested im sure this low investment text would have been brushed off. when she was initially cold a while back she would totally not respond to a text like this.

    My plan is to ask her out to a holiday parade next week. Now the only problem is it is during a couple days when she works so i might have to come up with a second option.
    I wanna say this after using an opener.

    "Im looking for a girl to take to the ____ parade with me. U know anybody by chance?" how does something like this sound.

    Prolly drop something like this on sunday.

    How does it sound?

  7. #17
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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    Hi Moof, I've just found this forum and I was reading through your SMS game. What happened next? I like your last option. Did you send it?

    I too have had a hotty go cold. I number closed her, then sent her a follow up a few days later. She gave me the "Oh sorry I broke my phone and just got a new one". So I gave her another chance. We planned to meet up at my friends gig and she asks for the directions and I say "bit too involved for SMS, maybe give me your email and I can forward you the invite" then I got nothing. Maybe she thinks giving her email away is too much? probably.

    Either way, I need to work on my SMS game a bit and I'd love to know where you got too on this.

    Cheers
    S

  8. #18
    Moof Guest

    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    Here is how the story ends.. thus far.

    So i text her a couple nights ago.
    Me: Hey, so what would u recommend at (the resturant she works at)... the squid?? ive never ate there before, only got booze.
    No response that night.
    Next morning
    HB9: Hey! sorry i went to bed super early. ive worked 10 hours on only 2 hours of sleep....
    (couple hours later)
    Me:Mannn they really have been working you hard huh. When do u kiddies have final exams? ( good neg, good dhv)
    HB9:Kiddies!....Piss hhh. haha got a couple next week (she appears to be playin along)
    (couple hours later)
    Me: ha. so im looking for someone to bring to the ____ parade. U should come with me. (mixed it up because early version was good. but only good if i had high value in her eyes, cocky and funny dont work good with her.)

    Been a day with no response

    Im in no contact now. Im tired of chasing, she wants me, she will have to come get me (not gonna happen IMO), Ive cut my losses. Movin on. I know two other girls that WANT my attention.

    I thought i had her warmed up. Guess its not the case. I know on the day i was texting her she had class and a concert to go to later that night, so shes busy. But whatever, she still saw my text and didnt respond. Done and next. If anything happens ill keep ya posted. But im not making any moves, so this thread will prolly be closed. It was a good learning experience. I wont let a girl treat me like this. Even if she does chase i will most likely not even respond..dont see this type of behavior translating to any sort of relationship that i would be comfortable with. no balance here NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT

  9. #19
    Saxton Guest

    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    Good work mate. You gave it your best.

    Personally I like the 1st option with the "do you know anyone who would come with me" because it's more flirty and playful.

    Maybe if you know she's really busy and stressed you need to do say something that will inspire her to make time for you. Like if she sees you will give her a break from all her study etc?

    Nothing epic comes to mind. But yes you are also right.

    Get some more girls and then worry about the SMS thing later

    Good luck
    S

  10. #20
    Moof Guest

    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    Yeah well the reason i didnt go with the first option is that inorder to pull it off, u need to be someone of high value in her eyes, didnt feel ready to drop that. Otherwise it really just comes off as tryhard. cocky and funny works sometimes, but its really not that effective on girls who have gone cold or do not have a high interest level. IF we would have gone on another date, then i think it would be appropriate.

    im not trying to beg her to have her make time for me. she should be making time for me. Mayb it would have been better to call on this one. But still i dont want to date someone who is a complete flake on texts.

    Ive ask her out 3 times with no success. Im not going to keep asking and look like a bigger chump. There is no balance, im always initiating and hoping for a reply.

    Im the prize here. All of her past boyfriends arent even in my league as far as physical looks go. And all my friends regard me as a really funny guy. Her loss on this one. Inner game.


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