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    Moof Guest

    Default Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    So initially i went out with this HB9 we hit it off right away had 2 dates really quick. then had 2 more spread out over a couple weeks both ending in heavy makeout sessions. Every date went really well she was paying for everything, laughing at all my jokes, it seemed like i had it all. However, it has been close to 2 months since we have hungout. During those 2 months we have been talking back and forth.

    However, during this time gap i was trying to game her with some over the top cheesy cocky and funny texts. When i did these to ask her out, she was not responsive or had super delayed responses that didnt go anywhere. So i kind of wrote her off. Had about 2 weeks of no contact. Then Thxgiving arrived. I sent out a fake mass text to her saying happy tgiving and all. she instant replied then i started flirting with her over the course of the afternoon teasing her about her long last name (she was into it) and she was super responsive (texting back very quickly compared to where i was 2 weeks prior). I ended the convo on a high note saying i had to go eat.

    I knew she was a shopaholic so i texted her the day after black friday saying
    Me "so you pick up any sick deals on black friday blah blah?
    HB "Totally! but i go mostly for the people watching, i rarely buy anything"
    Me"Im the same way blah blah blah"
    Me " Whats been new with you latey? u end up getting that surgery you were dreading?" (double text is bad i know)
    Hb:"Ooo not too much! and no! i dodge a bullete and i ended up not needing it at the last second"
    me: " what a relief! im going to be down in (her town) for some workstuff on tues.. i will be needing a drink after obviously. U need to come!"
    Hb: "hahaha i got my fake confiscated at the bars trying a new one out"
    me: "omg that sucks blah blah well i guess we will have to put this new one to the test haha"
    (5 hours later) (this time gap wasnt a big deal to me cause i felt i had closed the convo)
    hb: hahah it sucks!
    (convo closed)

    3am the same night i drunkinly text
    me: " (mutual friend) is totally wasted just like at (another friends bday party). soo funny
    Hb: "ahaha. ohh man" <-- another quick response


    she was responding between 10-20 mins a text and i was responding at 30-45 min gaps. This is uncharateristic of the past month or so where if i got a response it would be 6 to a couple days later. Her responses did not indicate a high degree of investment, but the fact that she was responding fast, using a bunch of "hahas", sad faces seems like a slight ioi. Im kind of wondering where to take it from here. It doesnt seem like a got a solid yes, but it doesnt seem like she is blowing me off. This WAS the kind of girl that didnt respond to my C+F texts ( " if we dont hang out soon im gonna have to cheat on u blah blah" and " hey wifey, im wondering what to tell the kids blah blah) BTW The story about the fake ID being taken is 100% true, confirmed by a mutual friend.

    I was thinking about texting her on the tuesday that i want her to come out with me. Trying to think of a good way to do it. Ive realized now that she is super responsive when im just being me, nothing cheesy. Also it seems that using an opener is a lot more effective because when i would just text about hanging out without starting a convo, i wouldnt get a response.

    So my proposed text for tuesday

    Opener ??? trying to think of one, dont want it to be super C+F or something that looks to pre planned (even tho it is haha)

    Confirm/invite "Im done with this work thing at ___ u need to come with me to (resturant) tonight."

    Please give me some advice on guaging her interest level/investment level by the text dialog. Then how to take it to the next level and get this date in the books.
    Last edited by Moof; 11-28-2010 at 05:41 PM.

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    chulin Guest

    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    first man u can throw a lot of game to a female but it iz impossible to fully figure out her head
    mayb if u call her u could get instant response from instead of waiting for a txt
    seems like she doesnt respond positively to cockyfunny techniques then u should try to create an emotional connection based on her personality n build some attraction to resurface those old feelings she had for u b4 she went stale ..def give it ur best game try to bring back those memories n feelings n reconnect ..but if shes just simply not respondin well ..its also good to kno when to quit it

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    Moof Guest

    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    So i called, she answered. talked for about 10 mins, then told her i was going to be at ___ at ___ time. you wanna join me? (prolly should have been more "commanding") She goes blah blah i have a mentor program and we are going for coffee (shady, said it was a chick). Then i go " well the only other times im free is ___ and i have an extra tick to the ___ game if u fancy" she goes people got fired at work for smoking pot so now i have to work the rest of the 5-10. This has to be legit cause it would be to easy for me to find out if she is lying.

    Then she goes ill text u if me and the person im mentoring dont go for coffee. so i go yeah just let me know and we will go from there.


    Now im 95% sure she isnt going to text me. Im basically calling it quits. I figure that she showed some interest over the last week (quick text response(diff from normal) and actually picking up the phone (diff from normal) id like to think she isnt just being nice, i reciprocated by asking her out. If she wants me she can come get me.

    I dont think it would be a goood idea to send a text asking if we are on tonight if she said she would. Right???


    Thoughts

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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    well personally i would try to game her some more after a little minor Freeze Out. cause she will miss the attention and you have some time to study some text game advice. i wont write much down here cause i have so many posts spread over this forum about text game. just check them out. you will find some pieces of gold that are totally playful over text and that will work out amazingly. i think ill try to game a girl over facebook or something and post the convo to give you guys examples of how i can build attraction over just text and work to a close.
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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    There's a link on the bottom of the website on how to text a girl. I read the whole website last night, and I feel like a new man, hahaha. Now I understand what I did right, and what I did wrong. I would turn up the funny if I were you, and never drunk text a girl O_O. Also, I would be more direct with your implications, like tell her you should "try it out" and give her a day or something. And if she doesn't address it, bring it up again, and if she doesn't respond then, freeze her out until she addresses it or apologizes.

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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    u should Freeze Out for a short time ..let her miss u
    show her dat u got value too ..dat u not just dependin on her to meet u if her original plans fail

    o man all dis txt game is really helpful
    ive read some articles n posts ..ancient greek philosopher pythagoras said dat theres no learnin only rememberin ..all the knowledge is in our heads already n when we r xposed to somethin then but we remember it ..i feel like game is kinda like dat cus a lot of things are so basic but we seem to totally fail to think of ..but crobinson1 ur txt gamin post would b very helpful n appreciated

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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    yeah just check them out on previous posts on mine about text game and u will find great posts. there is just too much and im not down for writing a book on this forum about text gaming cause it would be that long. haha
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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    Cool Cool. But my one question is. Does it sounds like she has interest again. If she is responding to my texts and taking my calls. Im just confused because of the 2 month time gap. Seems like she might still be into me. Im thinking about waiting till Sunday and then try to text her for a date

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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    well first off i would try and build some solid attraction over text by having funny, being playful and being different. she might be into you but you need to have some fun with her over text and get some more interest and then you can go for the meet up
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    Default Re: Girl Cold, Now Warm again. Text advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Raven View Post
    I would turn up the funny if I were you, and never drunk text a girl O_O.
    I dunno man I've had some good results fake drunk texting;

    I open with "Yo I, playing a drinking game with my friends I thinki m winning ;p

    (intentional spelling mistakes for effect)

    I usually only do it if I am actually drinking with friends but before I get drunk. Timed right and to the right girl the reply is usually something like;

    "what r u drinking?" "who r u with" "where r u?" , that sort of stuff and from there it's easy to go into your usual text game. Try it out some time.


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