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  1. #1
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    Default HB10 - I'm all nervous

    So, I messaged this HB10 this last week under my favorite headline "Nice Eyebrows"

    How is it going ****?

    You sound like you might be more than just a cute face. I bet you get like 25 emails a day from loser guys saying things like "I came across your profile and I thought you were sooo beautiful. I am a 35 year old meat factory worker with 3 punk kids, but on the upside, I finally have a solid chance at getting out of the trailer park."

    Anyway, I am 23 and I have my life together, and I am more than the usual amount of interesting and funny, so you better like to laugh. You sound like you might make an interesting friend, with your wide array of interests (Few girls love UFC... I am training for it with my brother - and dancing - I am personally fond of the Carlton from Fresh Prince of Bel Air).

    Look forward to hearing back from you
    The inspiration for it was David Deangelo. He fits my style well.

    About 1 week later this girl replied:

    You're cute i'm glad i got more than just a one liner.. it's about time someone had something more to say than "hey baby girl you so fine hit me up and ill show you a good time ". Training for UFC that gets you points in my book!! & I love that you mentioned the Carlton, made me laugh and i love Fresh Prince so another plus
    Now, I wasn't expecting this girl to respond. She is a law student and as I said, an HB10. She is rediculously hot, I could not even respond to her all day because I got a tad bit o' one-itis and had to come up with the perfect response. What do you guys think of this?

    Haha, you get 5 points for calling me cute, and 5 points for liking Fresh Prince, which brings you to 10. You're really cute too, but beauty is very common. Are there any qualities about yourself that would make me want to get to know you beyond your pretty face?
    It was a bit o' Style, a bit o' Mystery. I kept it short, as everyone says to. Anyway, I usually respond to girls without a care in the world, but this chick is unfreakingbelievably hot, and highly intelligent to boot. I am a little angry at myself for saying she had a cute face in the 1st message, then a pretty one in the last, but I did drop the beauty is common comment, and gave her a hoop, so I hope that takes away from that mistake. I find it impossible to do a flawless game, really you need to know how to manage the inevitible mistakes which occur. I was wondering what you all thought about my response, and if you guys have any tips for dealing with my new online one-itis. There are other girls on my radar, but when I see this girl's pic I lose it a bit. I sure hope I have it together if we meet irl!!!

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    Default Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous

    Maybe you should MEDITATE for twenty minutes before you get intimidated by her uncommon beauty
    You did it good as i read it and it seems to me that you have a good overseeing of what u say. At least up to where u r now

    Just keep it powerfull and smoooophve + fast and fluently

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    Default Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous

    well done! you did do it differently in her eyes but you seem to love the canned material and follow the rules to the tee! You seem to have the thought that attraction is a step by step model. Which in the end it is anything but. You should learn to think of this more as a toolbag. we give you the things lots of other guys do and that women arent to fond of, and then from there we come up with helpful little hints to push you along your path to trying to get this girl.

    So first thing, she is just a beautiful girl. Just because she is undeniably hot doesnt mean she has EARNED your interest. You seem to be caught up on looks and well with like lots of guys that the case. But dont get me wrong, physical attraction is quite important in my book. But you seem to think that just cause she is undeniably hot, that she has earned your interest. Rather try to find out whether she is worth the work or not. I have a guy now, on this very forum that i helped give advice to. But just days ago he ended up breaking it off with her. Even though she was drop dead gorgeous. She had the maturity level of a 13 year old. So take my advice to hand, beauty doesnt earn your interest, she does.

    ok next topic, the rules! Ok like i said you seem to follow the rules down to the tee. No mentioning her looks, she hears it all the time. get her to qualify herself, it will help. Dont jump thru her hoops, make her jump thru yours. All of this rules yes are helpful but that shouldnt make the frame you follow. Rather you should use those as guidelines. Adopt an idea of, "ok well since she is beautiful, tread water during the beginning cause you dont want to be labeled as "every other guy" but dont ignore her looks completely. she wants to know you thinks she beautiful. just not that her looks is everything."

    So yes your messages are good. They incooperate cocky/funny with somewhat of a feel of being direct. Even though your saying she needs to earn your interest, i read this message and just hear your intense attraction towards her. Im sure she hears the same but is ignoring it slightly. Just keep pushing forward and stop worrying about how hot she is.

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    Default Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous

    Thanks, and I will do. I'll try to follow the guidelines and less of the canned material in the future. If she replies, I will move away from mentioning her looks for a long time, unless it's an article of clothing and involves a good tease comment. If we go out, I'll do a field report. I never dated an HB10 before.

    Here is my plan from here on out if she replies:

    I'll write another short message with some cocky/funny, incorporating the points system, and ask for her number. Good idea to go for the number on the 3rd message? Then I'll call her a day after she sends it, and do the cube over the phone, and build rapport by talking about her college, which I believe is the same one I went to for 2 years before going to mine, and I have lots of funny/interesting stories and comments on that place. I'll tell her I need to return a pair of paints at the local mall on whateverday, and ask her if she wants to meet at the Starbucks there. I have a Starbucks routine that involves interpreting the weird art on the wall in a funny way, so going there automatically gives me a lot of material to work off of. Style says to have a second place to go, the second place will just be a stroll around the mall. I'm a fun guy to shop with, I'll take her to Spencers, fool around with the funky hats, then hit the painting store and "interpret" more art in a joking way. Last time I did this, the girl got involved, and she was funnier than I was... we both had a lot of fun, was my last LTR. Anyway, she mentions that a man needs to give her a kiss at the end of a date, or she will step up and do it herself. I'll make her do it herself?

    That's the rough plan, let me know where the flaws are, and where I can improve. The mall is my element, so I like to get girls there first. Second date I take em for glow in the dark indoor minigolf and a drink afterwards.

    Thanks!!,

    Raven

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    Default Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous

    dude you seem to have ur material and game down as a plan. but sometimes you need to be quick on your feet. ok well to let you guys know i am coming up on my 1 year mark in the game. Yeah its a lot less than most of you probably imagined. but i used to do the same thing. indoor rock climbing was my element and i worked that shit like a champ. but lately i have been doing what i want and then i just run with it. Now i am always trying to be funny and all that so making them laugh is no problem. but what you need to do is try something else. come on bro. a HB10 wanting to go to the mall to have fun with a guy. you might as well say "hey im gay and have no problems being ur best guy friend that will orbit your vagina always whining about how u date dumbasses while i jerk off to the thoughts of you when i fall asleep by myself every damn night". hows about you go have some fun and forget about having the perfect plan or perfect pickup. if you have strong inner game it doesnt matter what you do cause girls are going to love ur frame and you will attract them.

    im sure you have better ideas than the mall, starbucks, and some silly stores. now i wont lie if you guys decide to have a random adventure one day, yeah going and trying on clothes or messing with silly hats and taking pictures would be fun. but other than that not really. try something new and exciting. and stop worrying so much. so what, she is hot, its no big fucking deal. Does she look hot after a night where she got no sleep and has an intense hang over. uhhh probably not. think about it like that. she can look good thats all!
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    Default Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    Yeah its a lot less than most of you probably imagined.
    ahahahaha chris dont stroke your ego or anything.

    I just wanted to make a comment about the kiss thing. Don't make her do it. The guy is supposed to take control not the girl. But be different in the sense that you dont wait until the end.. kiss her early in the date. After that you will have more fun because you will both be relaxed.

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    Default Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous

    *stroke stroke stroke* emmmmm feels good. hahaha its alright some of us learn fast lmao :P

    and yeah forgot about that. u dont want her too initiate the kiss. i mean maybe to mess with her after you guys have kissed some but up until the point you start making it fun and resisting i would just kiss her bro.
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    Default Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous

    LOL! I have only been on these forums for like a week, and I have been at this for like a month, but I love you guys already. You're right, I do have better than that. And I will kiss her early on, I know I can nail that part.

    I always get such great advice here, you guys all know your stuff. I thought I was a quick learner, but I am but a padawan.

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    Default Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous

    Quote Originally Posted by Raven View Post
    . I thought I was a quick learner, but I am but a padawan.
    haha yeah stroke that inthemaking! haha boo yah.

    just playing alright bro good luck
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    Default Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous

    you love us already? stage 5 clinger


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