Re: HB10 - I'm all nervous
well done! you did do it differently in her eyes but you seem to love the canned material and follow the rules to the tee! You seem to have the thought that attraction is a step by step model. Which in the end it is anything but. You should learn to think of this more as a toolbag. we give you the things lots of other guys do and that women arent to fond of, and then from there we come up with helpful little hints to push you along your path to trying to get this girl.
So first thing, she is just a beautiful girl. Just because she is undeniably hot doesnt mean she has EARNED your interest. You seem to be caught up on looks and well with like lots of guys that the case. But dont get me wrong, physical attraction is quite important in my book. But you seem to think that just cause she is undeniably hot, that she has earned your interest. Rather try to find out whether she is worth the work or not. I have a guy now, on this very forum that i helped give advice to. But just days ago he ended up breaking it off with her. Even though she was drop dead gorgeous. She had the maturity level of a 13 year old. So take my advice to hand, beauty doesnt earn your interest, she does.
ok next topic, the rules! Ok like i said you seem to follow the rules down to the tee. No mentioning her looks, she hears it all the time. get her to qualify herself, it will help. Dont jump thru her hoops, make her jump thru yours. All of this rules yes are helpful but that shouldnt make the frame you follow. Rather you should use those as guidelines. Adopt an idea of, "ok well since she is beautiful, tread water during the beginning cause you dont want to be labeled as "every other guy" but dont ignore her looks completely. she wants to know you thinks she beautiful. just not that her looks is everything."
So yes your messages are good. They incooperate cocky/funny with somewhat of a feel of being direct. Even though your saying she needs to earn your interest, i read this message and just hear your intense attraction towards her. Im sure she hears the same but is ignoring it slightly. Just keep pushing forward and stop worrying about how hot she is.
Pick up is not a rule book on how to pick up attractive women. Its a life style in which attractive women are a by product. We have fun and they want fun as well.
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