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    dinorod Guest

    Default ok im confused

    Right ppl of pua. i might of put this in the wrong area,sorry if i have.
    Girl i like been out on 3 dates with her, friend of hers txt's me about her alot. which is good in someways.
    convo went like this with the friend ( i have told said girl who i like, that i like her)
    me: hey....how are ya?
    her: im good hows things going with.....
    me: yeah its going well been on 3 dates and told her i liked her
    her: yeah im gona ask her how its going

    now i was like wait a mo why? this said girl has changed the way she txts me since i said i like her.

    i got back
    she says and i quote.
    Its going good, I think.

    now am i being picky but what's with the I think? is she unsure with what she feels? or is she saying i think because ive not k-closed her yet?

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    Default Re: ok im confused

    oh my gosh. does somebody have a gun so i can shoot myself in the face? ok well first off how old are you and have u ever heard of inner game?
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    Default Re: ok im confused

    21 and no never hurd of inner game.Kinda new to this stuff as i was with a girl since 17 at school only just split lol. well 4 months ago

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    Default Re: ok im confused

    ok sorry i couldnt help but think that your just a nice guy AFC in high school that thinks if he learns some canned material he can get lots of women.

    sorry bro it just doesnt work that way. Inner Game is based on confidence, beliefs, and your overall attitude about life. whether you realize it or not your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. if you have a strong, assertive, and positive attitude women will naturally be attracted to you. That's how most naturals get laid bro. ok so i can immediately tell just by your post you are the nice guy. the guy who gets friend zoned a lot and probably never had many girlfriends in high school. my guess is that girl was ur only one if not maybe one or two girlfriends you had in high school.

    ok so first thing u need to do before you start thinking game is going to change ur chance with women is learn to have better inner game. ok so even if you start to get overwhelmed about game and start to freak out. afc adam told me once that if you want to increase your success with women you only need to have three things all naturals have. by having these three things your game will get better without a doubt.

    ok so he told me the three things are....
    1) confidence--- yes u guessed it. confidence is on this list because girls like confidence. when they meet a guy they can sense if he hates his life and doesnt really want to do much. girls want a guy with ambitions and confidence to just be who they are and not let anyone change that.
    2) abundance of women in their life-----this is something you need to work on. u cannot expect women to be in your life or stay in ur life when they start seeing their the only one. you can look like ur desperate for female attention. you just need to have a lot of women in your life that your either A) hitting on or B) friends with. you just need to have lots of women in your life. this is where those bigger girls/unattractive girls come into play. when your nice to them and maybe a little flirty, they make the best friends ever. and then if they do have hotfriends, they will talk you up before u guys meet up. so just if u meet these unattractive girls you have unpped your social proof by being nice and fun with them that they give you opportunities with hot friends. just hang out with them and be fun and playful. they will eat that sh1t up.
    3)The ability to sexually escalate-----now this one is where a lot of guys mess up. they can be confident and have a lot of girls in their life, but by not being able to sexally escalate, they will not get women turned on and bam their they go to the friend zone. you need to know to sexually escalate if you want the chance at being with more girls.

    so even if you dont learn anything from game, learn these traits and ur success with women will go up.

    ok so next thing, another part of your inner game and frame is being fun. i wont lie some guys just are built to learn game cause they are monotoned, no fun, unsociable, and just dont have attractive personalities. trust me i have tried to teach a few. its really hard. im not good enough to teach those guys until they start to change a little of there personality. so you need to have a frame (basically your own outlook on life/ your own look of the world) that is fun, playful, and something a girl wants to be a part of. when u have a fun life girls want to be a part of it. but lets face it, if your boring, not funny and cant get her laughing and attracted you have a low chance at success. so you need to work on being fun, silly and someone people like to be around.

    ok next thing, now we are done with ur frame, personality, and inner game. after you do that stuff maybe some self improvement is in hand. like fixing acne or losing weight if either of those fit. if not than good. ur set.

    after that its about practice and just learning some simple things. i wont lie you dont need to know how to microcalibrate qualification and make sure they follow it. you dont need to know how to build such intense attraction thru text that on the first time u guys meet up you fuck close. the best thing in game you can learn is how to have fun, make girls have fun, give value , and overall pick up women. each guy on here is trying to strengthen each part of there game and thats ok but if you can day game and night game in person you dont need much else. but if you feel like learning it, well me and a bunch of other great PUA's on this site can help.

    ok as far as ur question, you need to quickly change ur frame with this chick. she sees you as a nice guy who immediately just clings to her and are kind of needy. after 3 dates you just felt compelled to say "hey i really like you and i think we should date"? haha thats so nice guyish and lame. there is actually a movie i just watched that was sort of funny but had a good idea on how to describe something. its called the groutcho effect. groutcho said that he would never want to be a part of a club that wanted him. so basically its saying you need to make sure she works for her place, cause when she earns it she feels like she is special to have earned your interest. when u just do that, she feels like she didnt have to work for anything and thinks she can do better. now this doesnt mean go be an asshole. it just means have more fun and make her chase you.

    as far as text game, i have TONS of posts about them. if you look thru my posts you will find some pieces of gold that will skyrocket ur text game. and if you want to learn more cause the stuff is genius i would suggest Race De Preists product "b4utxther". its like the bible of text game. it teaches you everything.

    well i hope this helped. your lucky i had the gun in my mouth ready to pull it cause i was disappointed sir. hahah just playing. good luck
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    Default Re: ok im confused

    couldn';t have said it better myself!

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    Default Re: ok im confused

    thanks. alright dinorod. when u have an update just post it cause im curious as to how good you did.
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    Default Re: ok im confused

    I might be wrong, but it sounds like this guy needs to listen to unbreakable (review here: Unbreakable Review | PUA Forums Reviews )



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    Default Re: ok im confused

    i would agree with suggesting him to check out unbreakable. amazing inner game product!
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    Default Re: ok im confused

    I think I need unbreakable. Glad you dudes mentioned this. People are gonna be like, "Raven, what did you get for Christmas?" "Uhh, I bought myself some books. Psychology books... yeah, I've really been into psychology lately."

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    Default Re: ok im confused

    hahaha best excuse period
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