Hey guys. Brand new member here. I'm looking to up my game, since I'm still really new at this.
I went to a party with a bunch of friends from high school a week ago. I'm 22 and I haven't seen these people in 4 years. Got lots of good vibes and tons of compliments from everyone; I've really turned myself around at college, and having someone greet me with "wow, you look really awesome" felt great.
Then a girl I had a thing for way back when starts talking to me. A lot. I'm not even consciously trying to pick her up (because I'm really there to be with my old friends), but a lot of good Kino was being built, and the next thing I know, this girl (who wouldn't give me the time of day back in high school) is giving me her number and telling me to call her so we can go out sometime.
I get pretty psyched about this, and when I bumped into her at a cafe later, I asked her out to dinner. She seemed interested, but let me know she lost her phone and would get it back the day we said we'd meet, saying she would call me when she got it back. Which seemed pretty fishy to me, so I didn't get my hopes up and made backup plans. She didn't call, but imagine my surprise when she updated her Facebook from her phone saying she's thinking of signing up for e-harmony cause she's so desperate.
I've never been stood up before, and I was a pretty miffed when I saw that. It's been two days and she hasn't contacted me yet. How do I react to this in a positive way? I'm not gonna go chase her down because I know I'm better than that, but the rejection stung a little that time.
Thanks in advance, and I'm looking forward to being a part of the community.