I'm new to the forum but not PUA I've studied for a few years off an on and here's my epic PUA fail: i recently broke up wit my girlfriend of 4-5 months out of a very deep relationship. this was my first love, we talked about marriage and we promised it would last forever but it didn't(AFC i know) anyways we were best friends before the break up and her reason for breaking up is her family life, school life, and our sexual life(she was raped when she was younger so it made our last attempt weird). after the break up she offered to be friends an i thought shed bounce back so i agreed. my problem is i have one-itis and want her back, its been 2-3 months since we broke up and we pretty much talked everyday most of the time arguing about who did what but we recently had a nice conversation. she's beginning to flake on the times we set aside to talk about things and ignores most my texts now even tho she reads them all(there not all needy, I'm not begging or pleading for her to come back but i pour my heart out to her to show her i want to make things work). my problem is IDK if its still possible to get back together. she never stopped saying she loves me, even when i say she doesn't or else we would be together. have i dug myself into a hole too big to climb out of or can i get sum power back in this struggle?