I have never had a problem with this before, but I have had a problem getting numero's lately.
I'll get to the third or 4th message at the most, and ask for their number, or Facebook or AIM or whatever. One girl said she wanted to know me better before giving me anything. I decided she was an idiot, because the whole reason to give me something is so we can have a conversation and get to know each other better. I'm not going to spend time writing my life story back and forth to some chick for weeks.
The second one just did not respond. I asked her on the 4th message - she was flirty, she thought I was funny, cool etc, and then I asked her for a number or IM. She just didn't ever get back to me. Lame.
The thing is, I did everything right. I have a great handle on online game, I have read a lot on it and I was pro at getting girls through AIM and MSN even in my AFC days, but this week I have ran into a wall. Do you think these girls are just ignorant time wasters, or is online game evolving? Is there a reason girls are so ridiculously reluctant to give out a number these days, or am I just experiencing badluck?
Lastly - what have you guys used for successful online number closes?