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    SleekB is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: it's been a month. still not a kiss.

    thats pretty much what she told me today. my question is WHY? what did i do wrong...... i dont wanna sound cocky but im a built guy, have a brand new car, im doing good in school, why would she want to be just friends if i opened up to her like this and clearly showed that im interested??! fuck this is pissing me off and i cant believe how much i talk about this. got like 20 other options and she is the only one im actually down for

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    Default Re: it's been a month. still not a kiss.

    Well this is an old thread but it doesn't take a genius to figure out this guys problems. I'm not sure how he is on this forum and making obvious chump mistakes... apologizing for a kiss? You can say sorry when you sleep with one of her friends but not for kissing her, come on dude... I'm not a PUA but it doesn't take one to know the mistakes you made. Assuming a nice car, school and body will get you any girl is another dumb assumption. Stop fixating on her, if I really really really like a girl do you know what I do? I slap myself and get out of it and tell myself she's a nobody a flavor of the week. Then that girl is mine forever... It's not easy but it works.

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    Default Re: it's been a month. still not a kiss.

    Way to needy there buddy. Shouldn't have apologized for the kiss attempt. Pretty much given off your seeking her approval, where it should be the other way around. By what you put she's been pretty direct with you where she is at in life and your seeking otherwise. I'd tone it down to where your not going to alienate yourself and if when she becomes ready you might give her a chance.

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    Default Re: it's been a month. still not a kiss.

    Yeah old thread, but interesting.

    Its interesting to see how desperate one can be without even knowing it. When I attempt a kiss close and it fails ( rarely ) I NEVER apologize. I just brush it off and change the scenery (I.e take her outside, inside, to another location). I never even bring it up.

    And this guy guy clearly was over thinking things and grasping at every sliver of attention and blowing it up in his head.... making it bigger than it really was.

    The main problem here is that he didn't create any attraction or introduce any seduction. He was aggressive and apologetic. Those are fundamentally opposing behaviors , so to a girl it will seem like you are needy (the aggressive part) and a pussy ( the apologies). Only be aggressive one you have the girl wanting you (which should be established quickly).

    This guy might have had SOME chance at the beginning, but he played it totally wrong. He thought this girl wanted him, so he thought he was set. The girl told him several times she wasn't interested and didn't play it accordingly.

    Welcome to the friend zone my friend. Next time look for the clues that lead to a friend zone and squash them with PUA techniques. I don't care waht you look like, how much money you have, how smart or funny you think you are..... an AFC is an AFC.... PUA can use those qualities to their benefit, but can get a girl without them.


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