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  1. #1
    jonnyhandsome Guest

    Default second date with someone from okcupid

    Hey, Had a date with a girl from OKCupid. She was HB8 and we went to the movies, a weird first date since you can't talk to someone too much with a movie playing.

    The energy level went down towards the end and I foolishly asked her if she would like to go out again, leaving the question to her. She said something like "I'm seeing a few other people right now, but we'll see." I'd like to get another date but since I think I kind of lowered my position a bit by asking her that question I am not sure how to approach her for a second date. Should I wait a couple of days and text? I would like to tell her that I didn't get the chance to get to know her and would like to have a chance to sit and talk.

    What do you guys think?

  2. #2
    Raven Guest

    Default Re: second date with someone from okcupid

    Bro, she gave you code word for no. But it would not hurt to try again, go for it, and good luck!

    Just some tips for the future -

    Movie date should be done the 3rd date or later and should = heavy make out session (I make sure to at least make out on the 2nd date that way it's natural to go to the movies and do this). The movie you see doesn't even matter, but make sure you DO NOT get hikeys if you're dating multiple women.

    Never do movies as a first date, because you can't talk. Do this: One active part, one conversational part. For example, bowl first, then venue change to a cool restaurant or quieter bar where you can chillax together and talk.

    - When you text her back, have a plan.

  3. #3
    jonnyhandsome Guest

    Default Re: second date with someone from okcupid

    Thanks bro, I appreciate it. Although I am pretty sure I will be applying your good advice to another girl at another time. Live and learn-movies do not work.

    What's the move for making out on the second date and what's the move when you're in the theater? For the latter part of the question, what is the body language when a woman is receptive to making out in the theater?

  4. #4
    Raven Guest

    Default Re: second date with someone from okcupid

    The last girl I made out with on the 2nd date, we went back to her house to "watch something." I sat next to her on her bed, and got close. Then I put my arm around her lower back and kept talking and joking around like nothing happened. Then I eventually squeezed her close, and started to rub her back. Then she put her hed on my shoulded, so I used my other arm to rub her leg.

    Eventually I pushed her away a little, and looked her in the eye, grabbed her chin, and started kissing her. Eventually, after kissing her on the mouth for a while, I was kissing her along her neck, then, her collarbone (girls LOVE this), then her bra strap. The key was to just escalate one step at a time. You have to gauge where you're at, then take the natural next step. You can't just go into full blown making out.

    To make out in a movie theater, you need to establish closeness. She has to be cool with your arm around her, and your hand on her thigh or something. Then you kiss her on the cheek, and she'll almost always turn towards you, close her eyes, and start kissing your lips. Then you start making out...

    She won't be receptive to making out at first, that's why you escalate it slowly. I can get a girl making out with me in the theater in about 5 minutes of whenever I decide I want to make out with her. I think any guy really can as long as there's solid rapport, and by a third date thats no problem at all. I already got physical with her by then anyway, we already have a physical relationship which began on the second date, or technically when I kissed her somewhere on the first.
    Last edited by Raven; 01-10-2011 at 01:19 AM.

  5. #5
    culturedpearls Guest

    Default Re: second date with someone from okcupid

    Quote Originally Posted by jonnyhandsome View Post
    What's the move for making out on the second date and what's the move when you're in the theater? For the latter part of the question, what is the body language when a woman is receptive to making out in the theater?
    if she's giggly and responding to your whispers, leaning towards you, resting on your chest and not crying foul when you start nuzzling her ear

    but like what Raven said, better to already have kissed before you go watch a movie... and set the mood for theater smooching by already pulling her close for a kiss even before you get your seats (you gotta love those lobbies and dark stairs)


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