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    Default to text or not to? interesting situation

    so a while back i met this HB9 at my school. we texted a little and hung out a couple of times. i kinda afcd it and it went no where. apparently she started dating someone else. so i froze her out for a lil while and then texted her again and we had a fun quick convo, but then nothing again so i froze it. now the whole time tho she always likes my fb statuses and pics from ages ago. she'll send me a fb message like hey i miss you, or hey whats up with you? the other night i sent her a fb message and we ended up getting into the divorced role playing game.

    now my question is it too late to try and re start something up with her? should i just chalk this one up as a loss or should i try to build rapport? she just ended it with her bf so thats a plus but idk if i would end up being too far in the friend zone already. its been like 4 months since ive known her.

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    Default Re: to text or not to? interesting situation

    is she still dating someone. if not i would do a mini Freeze Out. cause she was missing you then after a great convo and fun. she will wonder why u dont want to hang out and why u didnt try. so i would think the mini freeze out for like a week or two and then when she tries again to hang out and says she misses you, then reward her and show her a great time.

    so mini freeze out. do some solid text game/facebook game. keep up the roleplaying and ur set to go.

    ps btw. if you have the divorce roleplay, a really good technique that i devleoped myself is a fight. not like real fight but a stereotypical movie marriage fight. since ur roleplaying husband wife, its good to joke around and do a fake marriage fight. trust me the death is in the details. hit the ground running i say things like "ok wifey, you have lost all the passion. i mean u give me shit for not being able to pleasure you, but when u stay lay motionless during sex its just not fun :P" always make sure to use ur text talk to lighten it as a joke. ur lol's haha's and all smiley faces. then i sometimes do the "why do u have to act that way. why cant u accept these children as ours? little jose, ronaldo, and john are ours. u cheated on me and now flipping it around like i cheated? haha"

    so just try some new fun ideas and show her a great and fun time and u should be set.
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    Default Re: to text or not to? interesting situation

    the only part i effed up on the role play was i missed the logical ending point. heres the convo:

    damn girlie, u keep postin up these depressing statuses!



    her:
    they arent depressing!
    me:



    fine but they seemed like they were lol!





    her:
    im like in a good mood right now! its just for those miserable people who actually "like" them hahahaha!


    me:
    so should i start refering to you as the mother teresea of facebook?





    her:
    sure why not! lmao
    me:




    haha idk, i think mother teresa was a lil cuter tho
    her:



    oh really...hmmm...not too sure about that





    me:
    who doesnt love wrinkly skin!





    her:
    im not judging you...maybe you like that kinda stuff, just like some girls like old wrinkly balls hahahahaha



    me:
    idk i think ur judging me! we just may have to get divorced now...btw im keeping the beach house





    her:
    haha dont divorce me...yet...



    me:
    fine but no more of this judging, its not my fault wrinkles are my kryptonite





    me:
    lol i guess i could change my ways tho if were giving this marriage another shot lmao





    her:
    hahahahahah thank you ♥





    me:
    im really only doing it because i like playin tennis on the beach in florida...dont get too excited hahahaha

    last one i feel was my error in this convo, but like you said ill freeze her for a week and then be like, "omg wifey, how could you?!" and then start up the fake fight maybe, but how long or how do you add rapport into the mix. do i do it by still being fun and playful, like ask using lite humour?

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    Default Re: to text or not to? interesting situation

    of course lite humor is the shit. she will definitely dig it
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    Default Re: to text or not to? interesting situation

    always appreciate the advice crobinson1!!

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    Default Re: to text or not to? interesting situation

    without a doubt. and roleplaying builds tons of rapport. just run with it and build fake memories.
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    Default Re: to text or not to? interesting situation

    It's never too late. Some girls end up happily spending the rest of their life with is a long time friend.

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    Default Re: to text or not to? interesting situation

    well this girl changes her mind way to much, shes back in a relationship lol still gonna go for it...

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    yeah dude. Just the fact that you're exchanging msgs with her is building rapport. Anyway, if she's back with the guy, then just continue being someone she flirts with, unless she has hot friends you'd also be interested in.

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    Default Re: to text or not to? interesting situation

    update:
    me:
    omg how could you?!
    her:
    how could i what?
    me:
    with the gardner?! pablo the pool boy told me all about it
    her:
    well pablo the pool told me you were sleeping with the maid when i wasnt home!!! explain that one!! or maybe pablo is just starting drama again!
    me:
    damn, pablo told you...i think i may need to fire him!!! but its soo not my fault! i mean u just lay there and fake it every time!
    her:
    are you drinking again?! i swear im going to end this marriage if you dont let me in on some of the fun!
    me:
    ahh you know me! idk tho pablo might get mad if you start having fun with me again
    me:
    can i get a mulligan on that last text? lmao (sent it right when she sent me a new text)
    her:
    fuck pablo. fire his ass! he is trying to get us to divorce!
    me:
    i kno right? fucking pablo!!! its alright i think our marriage can handle it. but we may need to start going to counseling


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