Re: Freeze out and Day2 Issue - Urgent Suggestion
well first off. DAMN JBARDU!!!! u text better than me now. holy shit bro. u are a beast at this. haha
ok well u guys have covered some pretty good bases on this one. but i started noticing some thing u guys might not be thinking about. i mean she is new here and has a new job still probably settling in. if your going to freeze her out it has to be longer than just 3 days. u need to make it like almost a full week to week and a half. i would push it off until next weekend. that way when she has free time she will more than likely think about you and wonder why not not texting like all the other times. its true. u texted her too often and come off as a little needy. it doesnt really matter what you say when u text that often. its like if u enter a bar and immediately go up to the hottest girls in the bar and talk to them. you could say "hey thats sweater is fabulous and i love butt sex." she will think ur hitting on her. cause why would she be the first person u talk to and say something like that. so u frequency of text was too often.
now building rapport thru text is fun playful and not very hard. there are some ways to build unconcious rapport by mirroring her. this could be from putting haha instead of lol of hehe instead of lol. putting a full smile with a nose instead of forgetting the noise. by mirroring her ur unconciously letting her brain know u guys are alike and that will make her a little more attracted. now other ways of building fun rapport is my favorite. roleplaying. that stuff is the shit. it litterally makes up events but she actually starts to feel they are real. the human brain sometimes has trouble distinguishing between real and fake memories. just like when u have deja vu. you left and right brain experience a different reaction to an event and u feel like u have seen it before even though you havent. so u definitely want to introduce roleplaying. i have lots of posts on text game check it out.
but the biggest thing i can give to this post is just like bardu said. u want her to have fun, adopt your frame and be a part of ur frame because it is fun and playful. whenever ur life is boring a girl wont want a piece of that. so just make a lifestyle fun, active and playful and she will definitely adopt ur frame.
im sure i forgot some things. but i have had about 16 shots and played 8 games of beer pong. im kind of fucked up. if i misspelled anything im sure u guys can figure it out. if not than im a pro at doing this shit....holllaaaaa!! !! haha and good night lol
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