Ok I have a two part question for you guys. BTW I am new here and thanks for letting me join.
First off I met this girl at bartending lessons and we made "drinks" for eachother, never really had personal conversation and were flirting big time. I feel I did a great job of the dangling the string and not chasing her. She called me an ass once and I passed my shit test with flying colors because I knew exactly where I stood and how to stand my ground. Finally on the 2nd to last class (I like this one), I was like hey let me know if you get that job, smiled and then made a drink. As I was prepping it she wrote down her number and gave it to me.
Now here's the thing, last class is on Wednesday, I'm thinking about texting her tomorrow to see if she wants to get drinks after class Wednesday. You guys have any preferences on what day of the week you take a girl out on or does it not matter?
Part 2, I have no problem attracting girls but I have a very difficult time gaging how a female perceives me and what her expectations/intentions are. For example, if a girl is looking for a One Night Stand I either don't make the right moves or miss the sign completely. For some reason I automatically assume girl X expects me to be relationship material (unless explicitly stated otherwise) and it feels like it's almost a self fulfiling prophecy.
Here's the thing, if I do take this girl out obviously I want sex, not looking for a serious relationship and I know she is into me. I've never had a one night stand but had a long term relationship for the last 4 years that I recently got out of (I'm 24). I need to get into the game.. any tips?