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  1. #1
    catman Guest

    Default Best day of the week to date

    Ok I have a two part question for you guys. BTW I am new here and thanks for letting me join.

    First off I met this girl at bartending lessons and we made "drinks" for eachother, never really had personal conversation and were flirting big time. I feel I did a great job of the dangling the string and not chasing her. She called me an ass once and I passed my shit test with flying colors because I knew exactly where I stood and how to stand my ground. Finally on the 2nd to last class (I like this one), I was like hey let me know if you get that job, smiled and then made a drink. As I was prepping it she wrote down her number and gave it to me.

    Now here's the thing, last class is on Wednesday, I'm thinking about texting her tomorrow to see if she wants to get drinks after class Wednesday. You guys have any preferences on what day of the week you take a girl out on or does it not matter?

    Part 2, I have no problem attracting girls but I have a very difficult time gaging how a female perceives me and what her expectations/intentions are. For example, if a girl is looking for a One Night Stand I either don't make the right moves or miss the sign completely. For some reason I automatically assume girl X expects me to be relationship material (unless explicitly stated otherwise) and it feels like it's almost a self fulfiling prophecy.

    Here's the thing, if I do take this girl out obviously I want sex, not looking for a serious relationship and I know she is into me. I've never had a one night stand but had a long term relationship for the last 4 years that I recently got out of (I'm 24). I need to get into the game.. any tips?

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    Default Re: Best day of the week to date

    i met a chic the same way, usually after graduation you go to a local bar and grab drinks! but any day of the weeks is good for taking a girl out.

    part 2. when your out with her, use Kino and guage her response to it. you may not get a one night close but you could def get a kiss close aslong as you play the cards right. if you can invite her to come back to your place and she accepts usually something is gonna go down! just slowly escalate it from kissing, the girl will generally tell you what she plans on doing that night with you or actually what she isnt gonna do.

    you dont have to have a relationship with a girl but can still hang out with her once a week or so. just let her know in advance that you dont want a relationship, your just having fun right now.

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    Default Re: Best day of the week to date

    Jbard, you know your stuff. Somewhat synoptic, but complete enough. But, catman, you're looking too much into the 'what she thinks' frame. Don't worry.
    Too many guys screw up on the first date because they THINK too much. Thoughts like "What if she doesn't like the place" or "how do I look", "What do I say" manifest themselves and the paranoia cripples you. Men coming from this mentality want to IMPRESS the girl on the first date. The thing is they've impressed her enough as to gain the opportunity for a 1st date or a day 2 or whatever you want to call it.
    All you have to do is carry over your persona from your first interaction and HAVE FUN. Remember, women can sense the seeking of approval a mile away.

    SISRAHTAC
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    Elicit great emotion.

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    culturedpearls Guest

    Default Re: Best day of the week to date

    Best day of the week to establish rapport is midweek, so you can work on the girl good and almost guarantee a weekend date.

    Best time to sexually escalate is when the girl is having a really great time. She'll be very receptive to your advances. But you can create sexual Tension even before that, just don't be sleazy.

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    Default Re: Best day of the week to date

    The date never matters, but if you wan sex you should not take her out on her period!

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    Default Re: Best day of the week to date

    thats not true, ive had plenty of dates out where we went back to eithr my place or theirs to do the deal...it all depends on how well you arouse her so to speak. if she wants it, it will happen. if you make her want it, it will happen. venue doesnt matter, what matters is your persona and your ability to sexually escalate. which since you have a second date with her shouldnt be an issue. be your self, be fun. be playful, flirt, throw subtle hints of sexual innuendo, and make her want to be with you. almost every date i have ends up as a fclose in the book (not proud, as im looking for a gf) but its all about your personality and how well you make the girl want you. tease her, touch her, once again make her want you. if you show you watn her you lost the battle


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