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    muse112 Guest

    Default Help with texting and plan (Quick Response!)

    So i have been texting a girl for a while and she has seemed rather interested. I hung out with her with some friends once and she was real into me. She seems rather experienced with guys and is not a virgin. I facebooked her a few days later and number closed.

    Then i texted her for a while and asked what her plans for the night were but she didnt respond for several hours and when she did it was too late. I figured it was clear she wasnt interested but she said she was doing something (she texted this with her response of her plans, I didnt ask her).

    So anyways, I decided what the heck, ill just keep texting and i did some decent text game. She responded with lots of emoticons, hahas, lols, and awws (only twice).

    So I dont think I have been friendzoned but I have texted her most days of the week but she always seemed interested, replied relatively fast (less than ten minutes) but sometimes she would take a long while.

    She said goodnight! sweet dreams! which I took as a good sign but she recently failed to text me back (the first time thus far) and I will see her in person tomorrow. ( I dont see her often at all)

    I was planning to try and seal the deal for a date but I think that idea may be scrapped after the no reply. I dont think im out of the game and I know the attraction WAS at least there at some point. I need to make a good good impression tomorrow and then probably Freeze Out for a few days and take it from there.

    Any guidance in this as I am not super experienced??? Whats your take on the situation?

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    Default Re: Help with texting and plan (Quick Response!)

    oh wow i dont even know what ur worried about. i mean you didnt put up any real text to analyze but i feel like ur good. and you need to stop overthinking this. she sometimes doesnt respond for a while cause she is doing something and couldnt meet up cause she was busy. just like we are. you might take it as signs but since it only happened twice but she wasstill very responsive to ur text game then u are just fine. especially if your meeting up. now if she flaked then yeah i would say freeze her ass out. and maybe even a little one or two day Freeze Out would be good but only if you get her really attracted and you can tell she is. then with a small freeze out she might try to text you and all that and then be thinking about you.

    so in the end your just fine. stop overthinking things and just play ur game. u got this bro.
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    Default Re: Help with texting and plan (Quick Response!)

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    oh wow i dont even know what ur worried about. i mean you didnt put up any real text to analyze but i feel like ur good. and you need to stop overthinking this. she sometimes doesnt respond for a while cause she is doing something and couldnt meet up cause she was busy. just like we are. you might take it as signs but since it only happened twice but she wasstill very responsive to ur text game then u are just fine. especially if your meeting up. now if she flaked then yeah i would say freeze her ass out. and maybe even a little one or two day Freeze Out would be good but only if you get her really attracted and you can tell she is. then with a small freeze out she might try to text you and all that and then be thinking about you.

    so in the end your just fine. stop overthinking things and just play ur game. u got this bro.
    Thanky you for the confidence. haha. So should I ask her out in person today if I am really feeling it or should i put asking her offf for another week, I mean I would prefer to just ask now but I am just aprehensive because she never responded to the last text i sent her.

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    Default Re: Help with texting and plan (Quick Response!)

    Okay, so as an update, I just saw her around noon and she was real flirty and into me i think. She was leaning into me and touched my face a few times.
    So anyways I managed to Isolate her and then asked her if she wanted to hang on Saturday and she said she would if she was free.

    I know I should have probably followed up with something else but I didnt want to push and I was just like okay cool, and then we talked a little bit more and she initiated a hug and I left.

    Whats my next move? There is a chance I could see her Saturday around noon before any date but I would rather not.

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    Default Re: Help with texting and plan (Quick Response!)

    idk bro what is ur next move? come on i cant give you step by step instruction. you learn better when u bounce off ideas. but im also doing this cause i dont think u need help. ur good to go. ur just getting anxious and worried. just go with it. this should be fun, not a job. haha
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    Default Re: Help with texting and plan (Quick Response!)

    Go out. Enjoy it. If it doesn't work out then at least you've had some success. Maybe not exactly what you want ultimately. But some progress is better than no progress.

    Don't talk yourself out of this!!

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    Default Re: Help with texting and plan (Quick Response!)

    Just get out of your head my man...you sound golden.. shes touching you laughing and very flirty, all great signs. All you need to do is physically escalate. Way to go

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    Default Re: Help with texting and plan (Quick Response!)

    Quote Originally Posted by LiOnHeArT View Post
    Just get out of your head my man...you sound golden.. shes touching you laughing and very flirty, all great signs. All you need to do is physically escalate. Way to go
    stop thinking lol that its


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