I am a rookie with all the sense of the word. I've been reading a lot about how to be better with the ladies but i seem to be doing something wrong and i dont know precisely where im messing up, Im hoping someone here can give some pointers. I recently started talking to this girl I would put her as HB9 or HB8 here is the conversation:
me:" hey, I think we met each other the other night , Im pretty sure. I didnt know you would turn up on this site."
her: "Where exactly did we meet"
me: "I think you were that slightly drunk girl who was hitting on me and my friends all night at that crazy party last year, don't deny it."
her:"I have no clue"
me: "Wow I wouldn't give you a golden star, ever. if you had a memory test you wouldn't pass.Anyway thatís lovely long hair, are they extensions? I bet your high maintenance."
her:"No they are not extensions I'm all natural thank you very much. And I have a feeling...at least judging from your pic you are a lot more maintenence than me. ;-)"
me: "Ahh, a feisty one. Good. Youíve earned four points for your sense of humor and three for your feistiness. So Iíll tell you what, red. Tell me three qualities you possess that would make me want to know you better. If I like what I read, you get to know something from me."
her:"Well you have already named off a couple so my third one would be
that I'm very honest I know that sounds lame but I'm definitely
known for telling it like is.I guess its more about giving people advice.
I'm a great listener but I love to talk"
me: "mmm, I don't know, i think you may need medication.... but on the other hand, Im getting a bit of humility in there for some reason. I bet you don't like conflict , in fact you would do anything to avoid conflict or stop conflict and those are good things have, so I'm intrigued.
So here's the thing. I can be slow when it comes to online correspondence cuz I'm busy and I work all day, so why don't you give me a shout on the phone. My number is below, I'm usually free on the weekend. Or, if youíre shy and would feel more comfortable if I called, just email me your info."
After this she never replied or called at all. So i think i was negging too much, any thoughts?. thanks for the advice.