I am having real trouble finding away to ask a girl out that I just met but cant get over my head. Usually I dont have much trouble but this one is confusing me on what to do as im worrying about screwing it up. I will try and keep it as short as possible
So to explain my situation I met her in a bar we spoke for about 30 mins and thought she was great personality looks etc. I got her # then texed her when I left saying nice chatting to you tonight. Well she texed me the following day asking if I have facebook so said yes added her and we spoke for about an hour. Two days latter she was online again and we spoke but then she said I have a confession and that on Sat she blacked out and did not remember chatting to me at all. I found it quite funny even though she was embarrassed so we carried on chatting and it was all good. I gave it about 5 days then I saw she was doing a gig in a bar (shes a singer) so I went along to surprise her thinking she would be surprised and excited to see me. Well she barley spoke to me that night she was with her friend so I can understand that she wanted to spend time with her friend and honestly she barley knows me so after she performed I just said good night and she thanked me for coming to watch her etc. That was Monday night and we haven't spoke since and I have not seen her online face book either.
Well my question is what should I do as far as contacting her now? I dont want to come across as desperate esp since valentines day is coming up I dont want to make out I have no one else to invite out so I was thinking about waiting after valentines day but what do you guys think I should say or do from here after hearing my situation