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    bigmeech82 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default confidence in a trying time

    So I started dating my gf 3 months ago... I was fairly cocky when we met but not too over the top, slowly becoming a lil more sensative, recently I have felt like she is. Slightly losing interest, I believe this is because she is moving across country in less than a month...
    She was very much into me until about a month ago, when I basically told her that I really cared for her and I made a mistake of asking her if she felt for me as strongly as for her ex ( who wasn't even her bf ) and I got the answer of she told me she isn't at that point yet...... but her feelings for me are getting stronger every day.
    She told me that her feelings are getting stronger for me every day, and thqt she does see herself being in a long term relationship with me...
    How can I put control back into my hands ? What can I do to myself to stay strong here? .. we have been in a long distance relationship this whole time, and it works fine... because I usually see her every weekend, but what sucks is that she's going to be really really far away here soon...
    I don't want to be a Dick to her but how can I re-kindle her attraction for me ? Make her crazy again ? And keep my self from dying because the woman I fell in love with is leaving ?
    Please anyone help...
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    SISRAHTAC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: confidence in a trying time

    Trying times are tests thrown at you by life to see if you have balls. First of all, never tell a girl you care about her in the fashion you did. Never seek approval. You can observe for signs, but never seek a woman's approval. You traded your status of an in control man for a possibility of feeling good by her words. Regain your prior demeanor. Sensitive and cocky are not opposites and are very useful if paired efficiently. Put your SELF and TIME above her, because after she's gone you are left in your life.

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    Default Re: confidence in a trying time

    Dude - you need unbreakable (it is 75% off right now):

    Unbreakable 75% Off <=====

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    Default Re: confidence in a trying time

    Dude don't get twisted. If you sense that the wind is blowing in a different direction, you may be in need of an upgrade. She is moving so most likely you are looking at a relationship on the decline. You would feel real bad if you got dumped and would feel even worse that you knew it was coming weeks in advance. Cut your losses because there is better/stronger/smarter/faster out there if you are open to that. Getting dumped would be a setback. Wouldn't you agree?


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