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    Question Girlfriend or New...?

    Hi

    I'm new on this forum. Been really active for 5 years but have been in a relationship for 2 years now.
    She is a really great but now she's a working for 4 months in France (i live in Belgium).
    Some weeks ago i meet a really hot girl (HB 9-10). Went out with her 2 weeks ago, just to have a drink. Felt the sexual Tension but didn't want to cheat on my girlfriend. Last week i called her to go get dinner. It went great, i felt the tension build up and a drove her back to her car.
    And then did my move and we ended up having sex in my car
    Now i have a really big problem.

    The girl is soo great and extremely hot. BUT she has already had a similar situation that went bad (a guy left his gf for her but went back 3 months later). So she's feeling bad about it, she wants me but on the other side doesn't want to be hurt again...

    Any ideas how to make her feel better? Or just now how
    to choose between my gf and the new hottie?


    thx guys

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    Default Re: Girlfriend or New...?

    I would just talk to her about your situation. Your gal is out of town for a few months. You obviously aren't 100% in love with her, since you cheated on her. Just be open with this girl and see where it goes.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend or New...?

    This is a delicate situation. The fact that you're not 100% in love with your girlfriend in France is really debatable. You can be 100% in love with your girlfriend and still cheat on her. Been there, done that, perfectly plausible. It's our nature as males. The fact that I want to have sex with another girl whilst I'm in a LTR is either purely for having something different in my life one time two times, or there's a certain situation in our relationship that I'm not happy with. Since your girlfriend is in France, it's a situation, but not a bad one. Not a good one either, but not a bad one by far.

    It's really up to you whether you go with your girlfriend or with the new HB. Neither of us can tell you who of the two you should choose and no one should. But we can tell you how to get there.

    Make a list of pro's and con's. Ask yourself what will you benefit from either relationship. Does she have the qualities that you're looking for? How many of them? Which one has the most?

    Then sort it out with either of them. Act with integrity.


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