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    Default Kiss close gone wrong lol!!! HELP

    Met a girl in college. Since the moment I opened her she I started Kino. She responds favorably. Always flirting hardcore not like that with any other guy. Anywyas yesterday we got out early she says she wants to sit and talk. Couldve kissed closed but I didn't. Don't know why.
    Walked her back to her house we spoke a little outside went in for the kiss. Seemed to me shewas going to come in also then turn her face and gave me her cheek and smile. She turned around and said goodbye. How do I proceed next time I see her? Conversation? Does she not like me? Had been getting ioi's all the time. Read somewhere girls will do that as a Sh1t Test. Need advice thx.

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    Default Re: Kiss close gone wrong lol!!! HELP

    my favorite technique is when you do the C across her face then end at the chin and kiss her.

    soo, lightly brush your fingers across her forehead as if moving hair out of her face or something, and then down her cheek, end it by gently lifting up her chin and then go in for the kiss.

    I think its a good way to get that first kiss in, it tickles her face, its pretty seductive in my opinion.

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    Default Re: Kiss close gone wrong lol!!! HELP

    Nice!!! Thx for the tip. Didn't think about it at the time. I will use it. What is your advice for what happened though? Should I bring up the subject? I thought about becoming the victim and jokingly blame HER for trying to kiss me.... Even though it was the other way around.
    I've managed to keep it fun via text completely unrelated topics though. It will be another thing in person. How long before i try again? And what is the female mentality after a kiss? Anyways my inner game remains intact since to me it's an experience to learn from and a step towards better gaming!

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    Default Re: Kiss close gone wrong lol!!! HELP

    I dont think you did anything wrong.

    You got the ioi's, you got the Kino.

    Did you work on escalating the sexual Tension? You want to get her thinking about what you and her could be doing, without making it obvious that you're aiming for that. This way when you move in for the kiss she subconsciously will have already been thinking about it, thus making her more comfortable with the situation.

    If you're not sure what her temperature is like you can use a temperature check question. Temperature check consist of 4 stages, Fun, Flirty, Deep, Arousal.

    You can ask her something like, "if you could kiss anyone for 3 seconds and no one would know, who would it be?" If she responds with an in depth question, then she's at the flirty temperature. A more deep question could be like, "if you could bring someone back from the dead and ask them one question who would it be and what question would it be?" These questions can really help you feel out what you need to work on. A question like the flirty one will also bring up sexual topics and escalate the sexual tension.


    If I was in your situation I would try to hang out again in a few days, not to seem pushy. Take a step back in your routine, try working on the kino part again and then move forward some more. A step back can really make a difference in how comfortable she feels. Maybe you pushed her a little beyond what she was ready for?


    These are things I've gotten out of reading and practicing techniques. I would recommend checking out Unbreakable. Its a very good program and taught me alot of things.

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    Default Re: Kiss close gone wrong lol!!! HELP

    Quote Originally Posted by Achilles88 View Post
    You can ask her something like, "if you could kiss anyone for 3 seconds and no one would know, who would it be?" If she responds with an in depth question, then she's at the flirty temperature. A more deep question could be like, "if you could bring someone back from the dead and ask them one question who would it be and what question would it be?" These questions can really help you feel out what you need to work on. A question like the flirty one will also bring up sexual topics and escalate the sexual Tension.
    Something funny is those are my questions!

    I actually came up with those and shared them with Christian Hudson from the Social Man (he definitely has my permission to use them). Glad to know he is still using them in his products and boot-camps.

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    Default Re: Kiss close gone wrong lol!!! HELP

    Yea he mentioned you in his product several times. It was very mind opening. I'm glad theres people our there like you and Christian who want to share your knowledge

    Quote Originally Posted by Bill Preston View Post
    Something funny is those are my questions!

    I actually came up with those and shared them with Christian Hudson from the Social Man (he definitely has my permission to use them). Glad to know he is still using them in his products and boot-camps.

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    Default Re: Kiss close gone wrong lol!!! HELP

    This is great stuff. Thanks a lot Achilles. I will use those questions and checkout what you recommended and Bill Preston read a lot of your stuff. Has been helpful really helpful. Thanks guys!


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