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    Sebastian Rhoads Guest

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    My texting game is pretty weak, I rely on my solid inner game to get results. With that said, I've been texting this girl for a few days, and set up a meet up for this weekend. Now, when I text I usually initiate, and send text - by- text with her. My question is, since I have set up a date for friday, how can I not let the attraction stale out? And any texting tips are greately appreciated! Thanks in advance playa's !

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    Default Re: Sticky Spot

    Well, you basically have to convey playfulness, humor, and teasing. Some random ridiculous message would be great. Albeit this example was on IM, I think it'll work on text as well

    Me : "Dude I have an idea. We should make vodka pancakes!"
    Her: ")) You find a kitchen, I'm bringing the pan"
    Me: "I found a gas cylinder"
    Her: "And how's that gonna help us?"
    Me: "Guess..."
    Her: "ooooh..))) You're not serious, are you?"
    Me: "Guess...again"
    Her: "And we've got ourselves a deal"

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    Default Re: Sticky Spot

    That was your example Sitfab, for which you could calibrate and control as necessary. He'd need more structure to handle contingencies than that provides; there's no guarantee his interaction will go like that.

    @Sebastian: you need to do three things. NOT be too available (match her TXT for TXT), qualify her, and entertain her between now and the date.

    The first part is simple. Be more random in responding. Wait 2 hours. Wait a day. And ALWAYS make sure she sends the last TXT. After you met a girl and got numbers and sent the first text (which should happen immediately), back off. A good rule of thumb is to think of an arbitrary amount of time, and then TXT. Wait for her response, then start the timer.

    When the time feels right, you ask her something like "I'm ambitious and focused, and I'm just curious, are you the kind of girl who does what she says she's going to do?" Adjust to your needs. Just try to get to a point where it would seem natural in a conversation.

    Entertain: be funny and engaging and compelling. Like as evidenced by sitfab's first line.

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    Sebastian Rhoads Guest

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    Thanks guys, that was a lot of help !!


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