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    JB21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Number closed at bar now what??

    Hey guys I met a girl at the bar that I would consider an 8. We talked a little bit but my game was pretty weak as I just got out of a relationship and had a lot of rust. She said that she was just out of a relationship as well. I was lucky enough to still get her number which she dialed into her phone and then dialed me so that I had hers. I met her on Friday night and gave her a call on Monday and caught her voicemail, I left a short message. At this point I know that it isn't looking good but I'm looking for a good text to send and then just give up on her if nothing happens. Researching and reading books that i have come across they seem to think it's a good idea to text something random and off the wall to an unresponsive girl. Does this apply in this case and what do you guys think I should say in the text?? Sorry if this is long, thanks for the help.

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    Default Re: Number closed at bar now what??

    I would bring up something you spoke about when you met her.. and try to add some sort of humor to it.
    Last edited by Jackman22; 07-19-2011 at 08:15 PM.

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    Default Re: Number closed at bar now what??

    Thanks Jack, I sent her a goofy text message referring to something that we talked about. She responded with "who is this".

    Is this a shit test and what should I counter with? I find it strange that she would randomly text back a number not saved in her phone that she know's is a guy.

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    Default Re: Number closed at bar now what??

    respond "Who do you think this is" or "your worst nightmare" or something like that.
    Last edited by Foxy; 03-09-2011 at 01:59 PM.

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    Default Re: Number closed at bar now what??

    Thanks Foxy.

    She insta responded with "I have no idea"

    Now what?? lol

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    JB21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Number closed at bar now what??

    After keeping her waiting a bit and not responding she says "Soo are you gonna tell me who you are or keep me wondering??

    I know this is a good sign but any help would be appreciated.

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    Lightbulb Re: Number closed at bar now what??

    Quote Originally Posted by JB21 View Post
    After keeping her waiting a bit and not responding she says "Soo are you gonna tell me who you are or keep me wondering??

    I know this is a good sign but any help would be appreciated.
    2 suggestions from what I've read:
    -Texting is better than calling for the first time.
    -Never leave voicemail until you have hung out a few times or unless it's a critical followup of info. Voicemail is like leaving two messages and decreases attraction. just think, how often do girls leave guys (other than friends and boyfriends) messages?

    Her saying "Who is this" is bad news because since had your number and actually probably has your name in the voice mail you left her, she should have saved it.

    But her saying or are you going to keep me wondering is good news.
    You could say something like, "I think some [describe yourself in a funny way, ie, 6' tall, awesome fauxhawk, and love for amphibians or whatever you talked about] met this interesting, fun and creative girl [on the date that you met her] at [wherever you met her]. Maybe I'm texting the wrong [Kristin, or whatever her name is]. You're telling me you're no fun?

    It's a little rough, but something kind of like that may be good. Since she just got out of a relationship she is prone to flaking, as those types of girls tend to still be in love. When in that state, they live by the moment, and slack on even nominal investments in new guys beyond that moment.

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    JB21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Number closed at bar now what??

    Quote Originally Posted by PhoenixSenator View Post
    2 suggestions from what I've read:
    -Texting is better than calling for the first time.
    -Never leave voicemail until you have hung out a few times or unless it's a critical followup of info. Voicemail is like leaving two messages and decreases attraction. just think, how often do girls leave guys (other than friends and boyfriends) messages?

    Her saying "Who is this" is bad news because since had your number and actually probably has your name in the voice mail you left her, she should have saved it.

    But her saying or are you going to keep me wondering is good news.
    You could say something like, "I think some [describe yourself in a funny way, ie, 6' tall, awesome fauxhawk, and love for amphibians or whatever you talked about] met this interesting, fun and creative girl [on the date that you met her] at [wherever you met her]. Maybe I'm texting the wrong [Kristin, or whatever her name is]. You're telling me you're no fun?

    It's a little rough, but something kind of like that may be good. Since she just got out of a relationship she is prone to flaking, as those types of girls tend to still be in love. When in that state, they live by the moment, and slack on even nominal investments in new guys beyond that moment.
    Thanks Phoenex, I let this one get away from me, unless she miraculously texts me out of the blue for whatever reason. If I happen to run into her again at the bar how should I react or should I just ignore her in general since I blew it? She seems very interesting and was very good looking but I've went out a couple times since and am not stuck on this girl or anything. Thanks for the advice.


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