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    Default Re: Cute girl, clumsy dude story, first date kino

    Jackman, it's obvious that Rebecca is kind of into you more than Kate is. Kate is definitely playing hard to get. Never give in. Text her some random funny stuff, like "Hey, I saw this squirrel chasing a reindeer and it reminded me of you". Be playful, play it cool, never look like her negative actions affect you.

    You have social proof from the frat shaving cream thing.

    "She doesn't really know me, she'd rather hang out in a group or something first." - on one hand, you haven't built enough value ( almost at all ) in conversations, on the other hand, this has a VERY VERY slight scent of a sh1t test. Make yourself way more interesting next time.

    One way of eliminating this inconvenient is to merge your groups.
    "Hey, me and my friends will go to X bar/location on Friday at 7 pm. You're welcome to bring your friends." This creates a safety net for her for obvious reasons.

    "All lighthearted, lame, boring stuff." - You could have done it by running some dhv, cocky funny, negs and a routine of some sort. Again, no value at all.

    "I couldn't bounce her from the bar to the bedroom nor would I want to really" - Bounce her to another location other than a bar. Bounce her to another bar. Or another table to isolate, but in this case you have to have run strong game on her at this point.

    "Based on my performance at the bar (crude but it was better than what I was doing), how do you think I stand? Are those IOI's solid?" Well, a full teeth showing smile IS an IOI, but that's not enough. At least 3 IOI's are needed to know that you're getting somewhere.

    "At the table, I don't think lightly touching her arm is very cool." - Yes, it is cool. Kino serves a very solid purpose. It shows that you're used to talking to women. It also creates familiarity. As an added bonus, women like to be touched. Keep in mind that men who aren’t successful with women usually refrain from touching the opposite sex or by touching too much and too frequently or without reason. So calibrate accordingly.

    "I know that I can't pull off palm reading. I'll just start laughing!" - Even better. She'll start questioning what did you see. She will not think what you think. Create mystery : "I can't tell ya, dude, it's just so goddamn hilarious". She'll be begging for you to tell her at this point. calibration, dude.

    "If I get some strong IOI, I may go for Mystery's kiss gambit in the restaurant or while walking her to her door. Otherwise, I'll go for the "first kiss" kiss close goodnight, though that seems a lil corny." - The most solid IOI when going for the kiss is if her eyes are going multiple times up and down from your eyes to your lips.

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    Default Re: Cute girl, clumsy dude story, first date kino

    Thank you very much.

    Next time you go out with your group, be sure you guys get out with their group. After some initial game run on her, ask Rebecca out. See what direct or indirect reactions you get from Kate.

    Or just simply go out and have fun with Rebecca.

    Either way, you create a jealousy plot-line. And it's powerful for women in general because it acts as a trigger for a woman’s “pursuit” switch. Kate may or may not know consciously that she wants you, but it will hit her like a rock if she does want you And she will start to pursue YOU, because she sees that OTHER women claim you, even if it's relatives. Also, you have the added bonus that if she does want you, you will "by accident" trigger an entire array of strong feelings : jealousy -> relaxed -> confused -> happy. This makes you a challenge in her eyes, since feeling that entire set of feelings is better than working straight to "happy" and give her what few men are capable of delivering.

    Have quite a few short routines up your sleeve, if your natural game has sticking points in key phases of pick-up. 4-5 would be perfect. They will come in handy.

    If you have any more questions, feel free to ask me.
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    Default Re: Cute girl, clumsy dude story, first date kino

    "Rebecca and Kate are actually identical twins" - Lucky bastard. ) Doesn't matter that much if they are identical twins.

    "I send her a text a couple days later saying that it was nice talking with her and she replies like 10 minutes later. We have a cutesie exchange about what we are doing and I let it drop. I'm going to play it cool. She has not texted me though either. I'm guessing that this is just some "hard to get" bullsh1t and what I'm doing is just the ticket." - Depends what you wrote to her, what she wrote back and what frame you set for yourself and her. Next time, set yourself in the "I'm the prize" frame and Kate in the "Sexual Predator" frame. Use this when you have build enough comfort, rapport and a bit of sexualizing chat. Of course, you can use it right off the bat without the sexualizing part and just have enough comfort and rapport, but in this case, your delivery is important and it may backfire on you if done wrong. Chances of recovery are high, though, but let's not get too risky and ahead of ourselves.

    "We've all become Facebook friends" - Bingo ! Chat with Rebecca over Facebook chat or Facebook messages. Leverage this situation by number closing her on Facebook. That way, you would spare yourself the dicey situation of getting her number whilst being next to Kate. Of course, they will talk about it, but that's a different story.

    "As far as Rebecca, its a tougher read. She's at least "cool" with me, and looking out for her twin sis in talking with me. At best, she's hot and bothered and annoyed that I picked her carbon copy over her." - Well, you might think like this because you've focused your attention mostly on Kate more than on Rebecca, so chances are Rebecca gave you ioi's, but you didn't saw them or didn't pay attention to them. I've been in a similar situation a few years ago, where there were two girls BFF who were interested in me, I've focused my attention to one of them, but the other liked me way more. Of course, I ended up with the latter.

    "At best they've already outlined the threesome" - I wouldn't really hold my breath with this one. Maybe, maybe not, only they know for sure. This is not what we're focusing on now.

    "I can train up on day game and mount an attack on the set" - I'll PM you on this one.

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    "Given recent failures, do you still think that Facebook is the only way?" - There are other ways, but Facebook messages imply minimal damage on the entire situation. It's her account, it's you asking her and/or talking to her. Kate has no part in this picture.

    "They don't facebook chat often." - Doesn't matter. All that's important is that you have direct access to Rebecca and a subsequent Number Close.

    "I'll reward good behavior and punish them with negs" No no no. You do not punish them with negs. At least not all the time. Negs are disqualifiers. If you neg a bad behavior, it shows that you are affected by it and try to defend yourself and might fall into a potential trap. Avoid this. You do have the option to say something like "Is she always like this? ( with thumb pointing in ridicule )". You can, however, do push/pull or cut off your attention from the one who has bad behavior. This is a nice and gentle way of saying "I don't take shit from anybody, so unless you correct your behavior, I'm not giving you any more attention."

    "I can game them as a set in person, just us three, it gives me a lot of room to maneuver." - That's correct. But it can also backfire on you for various reasons. In a group situation, you will have something to fall back on if things go wrong or not the way you wanted them to work.

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    Hats off to you too, Jackman. You did a great job. Keep up the good work.


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