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    Discombobulate is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default text after college party

    Well to start, I'm completely new to puaforums and PUA stuff in general...

    Some background story... I was at a college party where there were many girls from out of town. I was just looking to work on approaching. I after varying degrees of getting rejected... Me and another guy came up and danced with two girls that were pretty open to us so I got their names/gave them mine. Asked where they were from and such. Started with light Kino on shoulder then, since it was dancing, easily escalated as she escalated touching as well. Then when I started getting closer, playing with her hair/neck and she was leaning in her friend told her it was time to take a break outside! So I was sorta like "ok"... caught me off guard!

    Anyway I ended up "running" into her a bit later outside and got her # and nickname. I did notice that she seemed like she had a bit too much to drink talking a bit slowly. I also let her know that we could get together tomorrow for the concert or another party.

    So anyhow I sent her something along the lines of..

    "****** you seemed a bit quite last night, although not so much with your body and hands! Lemme know by x:xx if you'd like to fix this or meet up for some more partying tonight.
    -(my name), the dude who knew ****(song) all too well last night! B-)"

    ended up not replying so far today.

    Reading back through it now maybe I should have made it much simpler. Or perhaps she was in fact too drunk last night to really know what was going on?

    This is my first time doing anything other than an approach so any help is appreciated. Reading thru the story now sure doesn't sound as good as it seemed last night!

    Also forgot to mention this is perhaps a unique situation since she lives around 2hrs or so away from my school and is leaving after the weekend.

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    Default Re: text after college party

    Did you ever get a text response from her?

    Also you probably shouldn't have called out that she was frisky as now she has buyers remorse, even though you didn't fully hook up.
    Last edited by Jackman22; 07-19-2011 at 08:10 PM.

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    Discombobulate is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: text after college party

    Thanks for the suggestions, yea never got a response yesterday and since today is a mental recovery day for everyone after the partying I'll hold off on anything else till tomorrow (Freeze Out?) and read through that txt guide a bit.

    Seems like it would be tricky to recover though since I was showed needy-ness toward the end of our dance, even though she kept escalating her friends seemed to provide her with some LMR, as well as that txt I sent.

    Jackman22, u gave some great insight for me, puts the pieces of the puzzle together.

    Anybody got any thoughts on how to approach recovering this. I suppose this the part I have trouble with when talking in person as well. I figure I need to come up with something humorous, very low investment, and sort of ignore the first needy text sorta starting fresh. Kinda tricky since I didn't get to know her too well.
    Last edited by Discombobulate; 03-13-2011 at 03:55 PM.

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    Default Re: text after college party

    aw shoot, I ended up sending another text 2 days later to hopefully move in a different direction.

    I sent her the "I saw something that reminded me of you today"

    There was 3 days of partying this weekend so perhaps her next text is pretty truthful
    her: "who are you"
    me: who do ya think I am?
    her: someone from xxxx (she got it wrong)
    Not too sure where to go from here tho.


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