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    Austevens is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need immediate help plz

    this girl won't stop texting me small talk. What should I do? How do I set up a day 2? So far this is the text:

    Me: sweet dreams 4 am
    Her: Cute text.. send it to all the girls that won't kiss you at bars? . 7 am
    Me:how'd u know 1pm
    Her: lol 1pm
    Her: That was u that fb friended me right? You have no picture haha what's that about 245pm
    Me: Yea, I deleted them all awhile back because I was being tagged in ridiculous pics
    Her: ridiculous?
    Me: I just didn't like em
    Her: Lol alrighhht. So you don't have a single picture of you that you like? I just think that's funny
    Me: Yea? Well I think ur funny
    Her: o really?

    Any advice and possible scenarios is appreciated thanx

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    JonTylerDiPrince is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need immediate help plz

    You're kind of DLVing. You FB friended her. Even if she accepted, you gave her the control. Try to get them to friend you. You don't like pictures you're in, and taking action to fight them.

    Not much to go on here (background from your interaction). How'd you meet? What's unique about her? Something funny she said about herself. Did you try and Kiss close and fail?

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    Austevens is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need immediate help plz

    She is a friend of a friend. She showed interest all night but I couldn't kiss, I tried and failed. Now I don't want to upset her but I'd like to quit the small talk and set up another meeting. Honestly I can't really remember anything else.

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    JonTylerDiPrince is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need immediate help plz

    ouch. well, she's not giving you much, and you don't have much to work with. Don't worry about upsetting her. You don't want to be a slave to a girl you don't even know.

    Honestly, I don't have a good feeling for where to take it. I'd probably mess it up. She's in an unknown state right now. My first inclination would be to terminate the interaction and pick it up later. Either by saying nothing, or something abstract.

    "I'll just leave 'funny' up to interpretation."

    I'd probably say saying nothing is better. Then resume in two or three days like the conversation about FB pictures and "funny" didn't even happen. Gives her time to reset or wonder where you went, and you time to think / remember something about her or your evening.
    Last edited by JonTylerDiPrince; 03-16-2011 at 05:19 PM.


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