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    Default EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    i met a girl in the pub last week and we got on well and i've texted her a few times in the week. shes a bit slow to reply but she seems engaged and she didn't have to reply at all but today i got this message -


    Her: Sorry (my name) i cant be texting u my bf got very angry he was asking where do i know u from etc i dont want to risk anything and lose what i got.


    what does it really mean? should i just delete her or is there anything i can send to make her feel guilty and keep me in her mind for when she brakes up?

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    Default Re: EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    Dude, the last thing you wanna do is to put even more pressure on her than she already has. So making her feel guilty about it : NO. Little people do that, not PUA's.

    On the other hand, you can go with something like this :

    "That's okay, he'll keep you occupied whilst you are hanging out with me "

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    Default Re: EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    i was thinking about answering -

    "sheesh, he sounds posessive. i'll keep an eye out for u on hollyoaks instead"

    shes a drama student and i made a joke about her acting in soaps. so, puts doubt in her mind about her bf and also negs her a little as well

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    Default Re: EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    id back off of it. If you send that next one its only going to make it worse and put pressure on her. Not with it.

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    Default Re: EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    surely not replying at all just looks weak??

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    Default Re: EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    You could say "we'll be discreet. ;-)." but tcomea2 is right. back off. don't delete though.

    You could send her a one-way kind of TXT every once in a while to keep you in her thoughts and under the radar.

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    Default Re: EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    @se16's second reply : No. Because you give her some much needed space from the whole thing. Give it some rest. She might even break-up with the guy, since her reasons are solely for NOT losing what she's got.

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    Default Re: EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    just backing off doesn't sound confident or cocky though??

    i doubt if she would ever text me again if i just said nothing

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    Default Re: EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    This is not a situation where you should display cockiness. This is a delicate situation, one where you don't know how to manage it at the moment and only the greats can pull it off if they choose to. Really, give it some rest for a while, it's called "knowing where you stand". And you don't stand so good. You text her a cocky text, you'll get busted. Seriously, back off for a while. Game other girls. If by any chance they break up, then go for it.

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    Default Re: EMERGENCY - her bf saw my messages!!

    you don't have to abandon it. backing off means just stepping out of the ring, walking backwards. You're still watching the action.

    Wait a few days and text her a note saying "Well, I'm not a jealous guy. Don't get the wrong idea. I just enjoy meeting people and thought you were cool." Then wait a week or more and ping her with some entertaining dialog that IS NOT designed to elicit a response, but remind her that you're out there. The point is just for her to not forget about you.

    After that, sporadic texts once a month or once a week or never, if you choose. DO NOT engage her in conversation if she writes you back. Just let whatever she writes sit. Unless she specifically asks you something that could be construed as a desire to talk or chat more frequently, you ignore it. One-sided conversation, for your enjoyment, and her entertainment.


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