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    Default i need some advice

    hey there, so i met this girl at the library a week ago and weve been texting ever since and shes really into me, weve added eachother on facebook, we were supposed to go out on sunday (yesterday) but she had work, well anyways i really dont wanna fuck it up because shes a real quality girl. we were having a good conversation over bbm yesterday for quite a while and after a while she didnt even read the last message i sent her and still hasnt (its been a day) not sure what to say or do. if someone can help me out please it would be greatly appreciated

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    Default Re: i need some advice

    Hey, there, welcome to the forums.

    First thing's first.Get her off the damn pedestal. Switch to the mindset of assuming she wants to fark your brains out. You're the prize, so she has to work to get you, not the other way around.

    Then, make a good strategy plan on how to get her. You need to have a clear outline of the interaction between you two, both text game and the real date : attraction, comfort and seduction. Once you do, stick to it as much as you can ( you won't need to stick to it 100%, because neither of you are robots and you have no idea what kind of dynamics the interaction will ultimately have, even if you're leading it ). Have 2-3 routines to tell so you won't go blank on what to say next.

    Next, read about ioi's and Alpha Body Language. This will help you project an Alpha Self Image on your part AND you will know how and where you stand on her part.

    What she did when she canceled the date is called flaking. I simply love flakes. ) You have 2 options on how to deal with this :

    1) Prevent it from the start : this will force her to be congruent with her words and therefore will show up. Example :

    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...technique.html

    2) Bulletproof Anti Flaking Technique : In your case you didn't use the one option above, but if she flakes on you again, use this :

    "( HB's name ), I thought you are interesting and fun to be around. I really wanted to get to know eachother a little better and spend some quality time together. If not, then let's just be friends, OK?"

    This will guarantee you 100% a second date with her. I've personally field-tested it 10 ( ten ) times and it worked every single time.

    The reason behind this is that it throws her off completely. Chances are very high that she has never heard such a thing from a guy before and therefore she will most likely respond with "No, I really want to get to know you better and I think you're interesting too." and some other details and in some cases a re-schedule from the get-go.

    That's about it, for now.

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    Default Re: i need some advice

    im not putting her on the pedestal like you think or as much as you think. she was actually the one brought up the idea to hang out in the first place and when i said sunday she said shes working (not saying yeah lets do sunday and then last second she flopped on me). but i definitely need to keep mind everything you told me. ill try my best. im not sure what to bbm her to start the convo going again and get another date set up. i was thinking something like "hey did you forget how to use your phone or are you playing hard to get lol" i saw this on another thread, i thought it was pretty funny. and then ill just work from there after her reply

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    Default Re: i need some advice

    "She was actually the one brought up the idea to hang out in the first place and when I said Sunday she said shes working (not saying yeah lets do Sunday and then last second she flopped on me)" - Even better. Then why the "I really don't wanna fark it up" ? You've got her interested to the level of asking YOU out. So leave that thought alone and again I say assume the "I'm the prize" Mindset. You're in a really good position. In fact SHE shouldn't fuck up.

    And with the line, that's a great one to use. You'll challenge her a bit. Good work. Keep searching the forums for these kinds of texts to send her.

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    Default Re: i need some advice

    well i messaged her with what i said i would and she still didnt even read the message while she clearly is changing her bbm pictures and statuses. well whatever my guess is that she saw something on my facebook that really turned her off but for the life of me i cant tell. just confuses me cause she showed so much interest and then all of sudden just stopped...

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    Default Re: i need some advice

    She's testing you. And that's a good thing, because she's both :

    1) Wanting to see your true value
    2) Really starting to like you

    Don't give in. Ping her from time to time. Be persistent.

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    Default Re: i need some advice

    alright im gonna give it one last try in a couple days.. if not its off to the next one lol. thanks a lot for your help man

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    Default Re: i need some advice

    Expand your time limit, it's too short. Have her on your radar for 2 weeks. If nothing comes from this, THEN move on to the next. Be sure to have at least one potential date too. This way you won't act in "scarcity" mode.

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    Default Re: i need some advice

    hey i just want to say thanks for your help eh, she messaged me back today saying her bbm wasnt working or something and i right away was like hey you missed out on our date we need to reschedule... shes really busy with school this weekend and im busy with friends birthdays so a little bit of a conflict but im going to try for next weekend, hopefully shes still into it and its not too far away you know. so just want to say thanks for the help and ill post back if i need some help again


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