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    tracy84 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Number closed now what

    Hey guys, I'm coming off a 4-yr relationship and almost disgusted at how much my game has taken a hit.

    I met a chick that I'd say is a solid 8 at a happy hour last friday, after 15-20min of conversation my buddies and I were on the move so I got her # before I left. I sent her a quick text a few min later so she now had my #. Now during our face to face conversation earlier we discovered that we both live in the same apartment complex in a suburb about 15-20min away from the city we were drinking in.

    So my text went: It was nice meeting you, still can't believe you live in (name of our apt complex)

    Her insta-reply: Lol! well i do...

    This all happened 5 days ago, and although I feel I should easily be able to send a text to set up a meeting for drinks or something...I just don't know exactly what I should say. I remember she has a real busy schedule, studying for lsats and works long hours. And even though she was sweet/cordial with me, still not 100% sure she was into me. But I'm thinking I have to send a text pretty soon or she'll forget about me or just think I wasn't interested.

    any tips?

    I'm thinking of sending something like "hey i think i remember you saying u have a lot on your plate, but if you'd like to squeeze me in for a couple drinks lmk"

    i also thought of a playful text like "hey hope your week is goin good, since you're real close to me, you might as well cook me dinner. I'm not picky so don't worry about the menu, thanks"


    we both live in 1bedroom condos in a fairly large complex (12-15 buildings)

    thanks in advance for any feedback

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    Default Re: Number closed now what

    "You need to take the pressure off. Take a time out. I'll invite you for a drink. Now, Tomorrow or Saturday?" (always better now, but you give her the illusion of a choice. What really matters for you is to see her, not when.)

    Or more playfull: "Ok, you got plenty of the serious xxxx (her name), let's bring out the naughty/relaxed/party girl inside you... I'll invite you for a drink.N, T or S?"

    But it would be better if you call her and knew something specific she'd like to do or somewhere she'd like to go... The main excuse should be to relax and rest her mind.

    That's with the info I have (nothing much to go with) of course.

    One more think, for her to don't flake on you:
    Before to ask her out, if you're still not quite sure about her interest level in you, ask her if she's sincere or if she's the kind of girl saying something and doing another.
    Like that if she agrees to see you she won't be able to cancel unless for REAL reason because of self-consistency).

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    tracy84 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Number closed now what

    Thx for the reply, I sent the first suggestion via txt few hrs ago and no reply so maybe she wasn't into me or didn't like me texting and not calling. No worries I'll get a few numbers this weekend and approach them better


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