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Thread: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Damn ive been sending out messages for a while to no avail (used to get one response out of like 30) and now with that simple opener ive gotten more than 10 today.

    Can anyone explain how a simple quote like this does the magic lol ?

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    the only thing i can think about, is that is not a common opener, and for better or worse, they are not expecting it, and feel like they have to put you in your place...

    Nicely played.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Quote Originally Posted by Midbrain View Post
    Damn ive been sending out messages for a while to no avail (used to get one response out of like 30) and now with that simple opener ive gotten more than 10 today.

    Can anyone explain how a simple quote like this does the magic lol ?
    Quote Originally Posted by BarcelonaPUA View Post
    the only thing i can think about, is that is not a common opener, and for better or worse, they are not expecting it, and feel like they have to put you in your place...
    Yes. However, if you weren't getting responses from your usual opening messages it is important to ask why that would be. Perhaps there is a fault in the way you write to women (read: WRITE to women, your 'talk' and game might be great, but here what you say because it is written is so much more important to get right), or your profile needs work, or you are using the wrong photos of yourself.

    I was a huge advocate of copy-and-paste openers a few months ago. It is reassuring when you do get responses to copy-and-paste openers when it can be so frustrating to receive no responses from unique openers you've spent time and energy writing. However, unless you've got the rest of your online game nailed then you're going to lose them on the second or third message in your conversation anyway. So, really, in my opinion, it's pointless. I'd rather have two conversations out of thirty that lead to dates than twenty responses to a copy-and-paste opener that don't go anywhere.

    Don't count your chickens whilst they are just eggs in the basket. In any case, how are you going to improve your game if your using someone else's line on repeat? Stick to the hard stuff and eventually (now it does take some work) you'll be getting 3 or 4 dates (not just conversations) from 10 messages sent and the whole online dating experience will become much more rewarding.

    Another point: copy-and-paste openers become overused very quickly. If you have a recon profile you'll notice that once a copy-and-paste opener has been posted on here or one of the other PUA Forums or put out in one of Dave M's newsletters it will be sent out by 30% of the guys in your area within a few weeks. Especially if you live in a big city. So chances are, unless your quick on the mark, your average HB7 or above will have already received that opener several times by the time you get around to it, and that makes you look like a bit of a loser. Or she might get it several times AFTER you've already used it to start a conversation with her which could set her alarm bells ringing at which point you can wave good-bye to dating that chick.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    I used the video game opener and the first response from a girl was,

    "It's super convenient that my job as a video game designer will keep you entertained and well fed!"

    What are the chances?

    My response was, "Are your sure about that? I'm pretty high maintenance. I don't think you could even pull my attention away from the T.V. for a second unless you signed in as another gamer and we talked over our headsets while we attack the enemy."

    Am I going going about this right?

    Update,

    Her response, "If that's the case, I'll be sure to strut around the house naked. Since you won't notice anyways, why bother getting dressed?"

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    As anyone tried to be really "cocky" with the video game opener ? end it with something like " btw i won't pay for our first date" . Is it too much ? hahah

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    I get a decent number of replies with the video game opener. However, the joke flies right over the heads of a decent number of the girls. They think I'm being serious.

    Girl 1: "Really?"

    Girl 2: "Hell no."

    Girl 3: "That's creepy."

    I'm not sure what to say when they think I'm being serious. Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    This gets a lot of responses. I've had like 40% success rate with this. 81% of the responses are a Sh1t Test.

    The rest call me out saying that I've heard that line three times today.

    Just a heads up, it's getting old.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    This also works a treat for messaging girls who one has meant in a bar etc

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    okay so i used the "do you have a job?im looking for someone to take care of me while i play video games all day "opener, Then she was sarcastic saying "sure i can give you foot massages as well and make you subs all day long and to please contact me im so desperate" then i reply with "Very pretty but not much sense of humor :/" she then replies "Your sense of humor is lacking somewhat" then i used the "she is an old video game junkie line" and she then replies with "Lol You're trying to hard" I clearly have her interest i think she is checkin to see if i am alpha i am very new to the PUA community and jus seeking some advice

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    "sure i can give you foot massages as well and make you subs all day long and to please contact me im so desperate"

    "My dong gets hard when I get a foot massage and I don't want you all over me this soon, I'm not that easy!! "


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