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Thread: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Ok here's a good response that really works: hey it's( insert name), saw this number because it's the most important number you'll ever get
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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    So I tried the Video Games opener on a cute HB8 or so, and got a reply in less than 5 minutes. I'm pretty sure it was a shit test, but not sure if I responded correctly. Looking for thoughts on this one.

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    ME - hey, so do you have a job? I need a woman who can support me while I play video games all day.

    HER - Um so i hope your kidding!? Im not about to support a dead beat while i work my ass off..in fact i wont support any man in that matter!

    ME - Hell no! I do what I want, but I know when to turn it off.
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    I feel like I should have written more and not included the "know when to turn it off" bit.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Yep, that was a shit test--and you failed. By saying "I know when to turn it off," you contradicted your first statement and signaled that you're willing to supplicate to her demands. You also screwed up because you didn't include anything for her to respond to. What was she supposed to say in response, "Cool. You sound like a very responsible adult"?

    A possible response that would have solicited an interesting reply from her could have been, "What?! You won't support any man in that matter? Don't you realize times are changing? I take it you're not much of a feminist?"

    This would be a better response for several reasons: 1) there's no supplication; 2) it gives her something to respond to; and 3) it cuts the old thread creating a new topic of conversation. My general rule with second messages is to try and move away from the initial topic as much as possible.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Yep. I kinda figured that after I hit send. Live and learn.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    So I'm trying the POF site now and not sure what to do. Here's the conversation so far:

    Me: Hey, do you have a well paying job? I need someone to take care of the house bills and cook food for me while I cuddle with my puppy and play video games all day.

    Her: I'm stranded in montreal with my little sister she's hungrey I lost my ticket no one will help I wanna go home can you send me enough to go home and I can pay you back as soon as I get home I just don't have any on me

    It's clever, I have to say... But how would I respond to that?

    Option 1 is: "you're in Montreal? Then who the hell is going to cook me dinner tonight?"

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Most likely it's a scam, if she's asking for money that is usually the case. If you're unsure if it's a scam you may be able to think of something to come back at her with if you want.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Nah, I dropped that and when onto the next one. I've been getting some decent views on my POF page but nothing too serious. I'm wondering if there is a tutorial on this website on how to make an online dating profile? I've seen some samples, but they seem like they're more tailored for the "playful, not giving a crap, yolo" type of guy... And the truth is, I'm far from that and I don't come off as being anything close to that.

    Here is my profile:

    pofdotcom/viewprofile.aspx?pro file_id=62454670

    please let me know what you guys think and what I can do to improve it. Thanks.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Hey, i haven't been doing so well in POF. Any advice on a first message?

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    got this exact answer with the videogame opener:

    Sh1t Test – “Damn, I am looking for the same thing…too bad.”


    Any ideas for a follow up?

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Recovering ARC here. I've just started on POF and this line has worked wonders. Way more responses than the AFC crap I'd been using.

    I've been following it up by asking about her job.

    Me: Are you an olympic sprinter?

    Her: No, why?

    Me: You've been running through my dreams at night.

    It's been getting a laugh. Thoughts?


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