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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    So I'm playing around with a first message right now, seeing if it gets results. I figure since this thread started a lot of the older ideas have gotten "tired" and therefore should be "retired."

    I'm surprised no one else has thought of this yet. Let me know what you guys think.

    "Are you sick of "hey there," "i luv ur eyes QT, and "your beautiful"?
    Do you feel like [something about their profile] is in your sights but just barely out of reach?
    Can you keep up with witty banter and intelligent conversation, and wish others could do the same?

    All these answers and more are just one click away, click "Respond" now!

    ^^Shamelessly stolen from advertising strategies "

    I figure if our profile is an advertisement for ourselves, why shouldn't we shamelessly use what internet adds do to hook potential buyers for our first message? ha.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Hey Guys,

    I used this opener on a online dating site.

    " Girls with the hot pics can be empty. lol If you're not share your warm smile..."

    Her response: "I don't need to prove anything"

    Is this a shit test..? Sounds like shes taking it personal...lol

    How do i respond to this ?
    Any help would be much appreciated.

    Thanks
    S

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Using a neg & or "cocky-funny" messages in an online dating opener is suicide 99% of the time.
    That approach puts a girl in a defensive mode right from the start, so you'll have to work harder to successfully progress.

    Her reply is somewhere between a shit test and a blowout.

    The best way to follow-up at this point, is to go hard-core playful & confident. (No more negs!)

    Something like:

    "Touche', well played!
    You've got a great spunky vibe about you. I can totally see you being the queen of razzing & bantering with your friends.

    How good are you on April Fool's Day? Do you own, or get owned?
    "


    It's not a guarantee that she'll respond positively, or even at all... but your chances will be better going with something along these lines.


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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Hey T-Mal,

    Thanks for the quick response and great point, I understand where I went wrong. I still have much to learn...lol.

    I'll try your line and hope for the best..

    Thanks again for the input.

    S

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    I've recently been experimenting with this opener "Hey, you seem like an interesting girl... Too bad you're not my type" I've gotten a few responses such as: "Then why would you message me?" "That's kinda rude" and "Okay good"

    My follow up is something like "Maybe I'm rushing to judgement, I'll get to know you first. I'm blah" That changes depending on the response, but that's the idea. One girl asked why she's not my type, and I said it's a secret and moved on.

    Any comments? Changes?

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Hey man, why don't you msg me back!

    I have never been good with the whole neg philosophy.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Nothing to ground breaking to add to this thread but the;

    “hey, so do you have a job? I need a woman who can support me while I play video games all day.”

    worked well for me so far

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    Hi can u send me a nude pic id luve that

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    text game can be tricky. I really want to master it but just don't how.

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    Default Re: First message to send to a girl that almost always gets replies

    I've used some candid ones. I'll throw everything in here, what worked and whatever haven't

    From Tinder:

    Me: Hey you seem interesting and look chill, sadly Tinder only does with looks so help me fill the blanks, tell me something about yourself. Like what makes you unique from the rest, besides your looks :-)

    HB: This is a joke right?

    Me: No. A joke would be a horse walks into a bar and the bartender says 'Why the long face?'

    (I guess she didn't watch Hot Shots!)



    This is from Okcupid:

    Me: Although you sound like a cool person, Okcupid has determined that with 34% Enemy you may lose a few arguments.

    HB: Oh really haha

    Me: Oooh you're pushing it now

    HB: Yup

    Me: You said people usually notice your height, why how tall are you?

    HB: Not very tall

    Me: Tough cookie

    HB: Aye

    ( just a few messages here and there and i got bored. A girl with no interest shows in her responses, I couldn't be bothered)


    Another HB who said something about Meg Ryan in the diner scene in When Harry Met Sally and in her "What do you think about" or whatever profile thing, she wondered what Morgan Freeman does in his spare time or something. ( I think)

    Me: That romantic scene you described was so cheesy haha! What's your favourite Meg Ryan film? Mine has to be City of Angels. PS: Morgan Freeman spends most of his time wondering what Jack Nicholson would do!

    HB: Well, I literally think that she is best when working with Tom Hanks like in You've Got Mail and Sleepless in Seattle but I think my favourite one had to be When Harry Met Sally - partly because it includes the scene which I described and Morgan Freeman is basically a God though aha

    (again after here and there, it just fizzled out and I couldn't be arsed)



    Enjoy my failures! :'D


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