The first message to a girl on a dating site will determine whether she looks at your profile, replies or just deletes it along with the other dozens of messages she gets every day.
I used to go through a girls profile then try to think of something witty/sarcastic to say then message her, but that'd take so long and online game is about numbers, just like in person.
Common opening messages like "Hey whats going on" won't work unless you have a very solid profile or you have to be damn good looking.
The message I've been having success with is:
“hey, so do you have a job? I need a woman who can support me while I play video games all day.”
Here are some actual responses I got:
Shocked – “haha I hope that’s a joke cuz I got a good laugh out of it.”, ”LOL! you have to be kidding me.”
Qualifying themselves – “Hahahaha does full time student count? lol I’ll be a baller when I graduate tho!” , “I do have a good job, I make $600 in tips a week”
sh1t Test – “i think we’re looking for the same thing…too bad.”
Don't be intimidated by the sh1t tests, I just keep my frame and continue exaggerating or playing along with the story, she just wants to see if you'll buckle under resistance.
Also - be sure to check out this thread on an online dating profile that is just KILLLING it: