This is my first post on here so go easy on me! So I've been texting a girl who seems fairly interested in me, One reason I say that is because SHE opens the conversation to me through text AT LEAST once a day usually more. While in person (School) she hangs off of me! When I text her I try to do some of the things I've learned from here but I don't really feel like it's showing!
Me: Ha how was your 4 day weekend?? ((She had been absent the week before))
Me: Went to the wayne concert last night that was pretty awesome! Not gonna lie hahaha
Her: Ggrrrrrrr jealous
Me: You shoulda gone then!!
Her: I know:(if i knew you went i should have!
Me: Yeah we needed a girl it was just Sean and i hahaha
Her: I would have goneee:(
Me: I dont know could you handle the ROUGH dc crowd?:P
Her: hahah hey i can hang with the crowwwwd.
Me: I dont know... Little white girl at a dc wayne concert?? Haha ((I repeated myself, I looked at this just kicking myself after I sent it))
Her: Sounds like a parrtayyy
Me: Yeah it does! Well next time ill hit you up!
Her: SCORE! Whats the next concert?
Me: Haha I dont know like south carolina, road trip?!?!:P
Her: hahah down, but i ment around heree duh
Me: Haha I dont know go check for me im lazy:P
Her: Nooppee to tireed
Me: You had a 4 day weekend dont tell me about tired! Haha:P
Her: haha hey shush
Me: Hey! Dont shush me Brittany!
Me: YOU SHUSH!
I didn't reply because I thought it was dying out. I feel like I do too much conversing and less to the everything else I actually need but this was me TRYING to be quick and flirty :/. The positives of this is the negging I did but it didn't really follow through with later on. I noticed she gets interested in the conversation and then completely loses it a couple minutes later, is it me or something I need to learn to get around that all girls do? She did the same thing today, I had suggested we watch Ferris Bueller together since she has never seen it, and I get this reply
Her: hahah when? You know what? We should get a bunch of people and drive around and watch moviess
Me: Drive around where?! Cause im down!
Her: Haha i donnooo!
Me: Thats not helpful:((
Her: Haha i knowoww imma bum.
Me: To think I gave an old bum a ride home!
Her: What can i saayy
Me 20 minutes later cause I was just stumped: I dont have Ferris Bueller! If only I had netflix!!
Her: Haha get it dooode
Me: Ha alright well I gotta go do stuff, talk to you later
Her: Have fun
I end it because it was getting ugly. But she seems interested then it dies down, is it just me not being secure on plans and just being "we should" "one day" "sometime" and letting everything have no set dates or she doesnt want it to be just us, I got this idea from her suggesting friends.
Anything will help and be much appreciated!