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    hockey99 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Getting short replies

    So I talked minimally with a girl from a dating site and she gave me her number and I texted her yesterday a little bit about a sports game, getting short replies. Sensing she wasn't into it, I stopped and woke up this morning to find a "Hey what's up" text message from her.

    Me-not too much. mentioned I just finished taking my dog for a walk and working out. I asked her "what kind of mischief she was causing today"

    her response:

    Me: I'll assume all kinds. I heard something yesterday that reminded me of you..

    Her: what? (it only took her a minute to reply to this one)

    Me: Eminem on the radio (she mentioned it on her dating profile). "you're not going to rap for me are you? Cause I don't really feel like getting a headache today...haha"

    her: Haha

    Me: I'm off for a swim, talk to you later sugar plum (changed nickname)

    her: okay x


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    So I'm really new to this and bought b4utxther and I'm trying to use the techniques that he talks about but am coming up with short replies. I ended the conversation for today because I wanted to end on a high note.

    What am I doing wrong?

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    Default Re: Getting short replies

    Well you should read "The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game"...its not really useful (personal opinion), but it's a great introduction to the "proper way" to text girls. Text game is so difficult because the chances for misinterpretation is so great..the emotion of the conversation is just...gone (my opinion), now don't get me wrong, you can still have a text conversation with emotion, but you just have to employ the right techniques, and play them with great proficiency. My opinion and several things to help you...don't take it too hard on yourself, for all you know, she could simply be...busy. She could be baking a cake, cooking something, shopping, who knows, simply saying "it sounds like you're busy right now, I'll leave you alone" this indicates that you are not desperate for a response from her, and usually after this, she'll start apologizing if she's not busy, or if she is, she'll kindly take your offer and text back later. I'm sure you're familiar with the principle of don't text back at light speed as soon as you get a response, because this would indicate neediness in a way. Also vary the lengths of your text messages. Don't go sending novels with every message. Hell sometimes you could even send some one word texts just to mess with her. Texting is only meant to be made for planning things by the way..don't make your whole game entirely dependent on a text message. Simple Kino would out-do a text message any day. (P.S. on a side note, how is b4utxther? is it a good program?)
    Last edited by Element; 04-11-2011 at 02:58 AM. Reason: Grammar error

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    Default Re: Getting short replies

    Hey thanks for the tips element!

    B4UTextHer is a pretty good program. It's really contains the basics of flirting and attempts to translate them into instructions for texting, which I think it does quite well. I hardly think it was worth the $97 I paid for it. I would have been more comfortable with around $50, but I don't regret buying it.

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    Default Re: Getting short replies

    Quote Originally Posted by hockey99 View Post
    Hey thanks for the tips element!

    B4UTextHer is a pretty good program. It's really contains the basics of flirting and attempts to translate them into instructions for texting, which I think it does quite well. I hardly think it was worth the $97 I paid for it. I would have been more comfortable with around $50, but I don't regret buying it.
    Hey there,
    I know this is a bit late in response, but I've gotten to the point where my texting guide is starting to be useful. I've been posting one section a week. You might check out the last two sections, in regard to your initial question. Specifically, look at my concept of "hooking". I think you will find it useful for making your conversations more interesting and keeping them going.

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ing-guide.html


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