Trajan, it's quite funny .. i learnt personalized is the way to go when i followed david DeAngelo and others and realized it's SO hard to change myself .. in fact have things backfire because of inconsistencys and tendencies to do things the natural way.

TheBOB, yes the text should be a test more to see ow they reacted to the outting or the entire situation as a whole... no explanation needed for it.. it's a test and confidence checker type of text.