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    Default Kiss closed a first date

    So I went on my first "real" date, and got a short make out. Now when I text or talk to her, should I ever bring anything up about the kiss or the date? I dont want to come off as creepy.

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    Default Re: Kiss closed a first date

    first off, congrats on your first date.

    You should text her somehting like this .. "Hey (name), it was really fun seeing you last night. Remember we must find a restaurant that makes better apple pies!"

    let me break that text down for you, you stated her by name (more respectable), you said it was fun seeing her (asking for a reply to see if she had fun too) and then you reminded her of something that was funny from last night and asking for a second date (memories play a big role in emotional attachment especially at the beginning of things.

    something funny could even be, maybe wear shorter heals so you don't trip on the side walk! or I'm still laughing at the guy who hit a wall from looking at you whle walking.

    good luck. cheers
    Last edited by studmuffin52; 04-13-2011 at 02:43 PM.

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    Default Re: Kiss closed a first date

    Hey dude that's awesome, I am going to throw in my 2 cents. I respectfully disagree with part of what 'studmuffin' said..I wouldn't say it was really fun seeing you last night, that is very common and could possibly lower your value. Also, don't mention the kiss or the date. Move forward as if it is natural that you BOTH enjoyed the date. You both had fun, you guys enjoyed a bit of kissing. When you talk about the kiss or the date or how much fun you had it is possible to seem like you care to much and this isn't something that happens to you a lot. Also, I would try to avoid the texting. Call her to chat, if you have some free time this week then make plans for a second date. Keep on being a rockstar congrats

    cheers,
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    Default Re: Kiss closed a first date

    yeah, Trajan has a point I MUST agree, never text after a good first date, calling is better.

    I guess I was responding in accordance to a text message .. but yes! CALL HER!

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    Default Re: Kiss closed a first date

    Thanks guys! So would you recommend calling her a few days after the date? It seems like if I call her the day after trying to set something up, that I may look desperate.

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    Default Re: Kiss closed a first date

    do a follow-up call today, just to see how she is and just to talk.. then a few days later.. call for date #2. That's what I usually do.

    Only, if you wait a few days, she may see that as a typical guy, if you really like her, show her you do care and you aren't going by a typical playbook.

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    Default Re: Kiss closed a first date

    What if I will see her at school tomorrow and shes already started texting me today? I dont know guys, I just read this little thing by Bobby Rio, he said:

    (Even the most “alpha” men have a habit of turning into a clingy little pansy when he finds himself with a girl he believes is “out of his league.” These men become so insecure that the woman is going leave them that they actually scare her away with their neediness. Women don’t want needy men. They don’t want a man who constantly calls them. They don’t want a man who admits his feelings too soon. And they don’t want to have to worry that you’re going to turn into some possessive stalker type.)

    So if I am already texting her and she was already mentioning us having a second date, and she said well talk at school (which is tomorrow) dont you think calling her to may be overkill?
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    Default Re: Kiss closed a first date

    well, if she started the texting and it naturally got there, then no calling is neccessary. and at least u sealed a second date and a mini "seeing her" session tmr to discuss.

    I think we read too much on the experts, and try to change ourselves, I feel we should take their ideas to enhance our original selves, because naturally that's the person the girl should like.

    And after tomorrow, just randomly text her a good morning or good afternoon. Call every 2-3 days and you should be fine. Make sure she gets The Vibe you give them space and you aren't clingy.

    Hope this helps you.

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    Default Re: Kiss closed a first date

    Funny you should say that @studmuffin, because I completely agree. My wing Face and I teach dating in a way that is personalized. So people don't have to change who they are. It serves as a much more productive and efficient way to learn.

    @genium
    It looks like you're on the right track. This girl seems to like you. Since it sounds like you're nearer to the beginning of your journey I recommend approaching a few girls this week for numbers.. so you don't put all your eggs in one basket. This way you won't be thinking "Okay - I don't want to come off as needy or desperate," you just wont be these things at all.. Create a couple options or plant seeds so to speak. Goodluck!!

    cheers,
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    Default Re: Kiss closed a first date

    i would throw a confident text ASAP. something like "hey (name), i could tell you had a good time, seeing that guy walk into the wall was fun" or whatever fun memory u bring up.

    dont use that directly, but reading how SHE responded is better. or placing how YOU felt on HER can work. make sense? guys please elaborate/ correct this for me


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