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    Default I need some input on this...

    I meet her couple of years ago you can say. Just that we never did anything till last year. After couple of month of just texting and going nowhere. You can say we just lost touch. While those time apart, I really got into this stuff working on everything like getting out of my comfort zone, my voice, my selfesteem, and body language. You can say I feel and perform better than most guys. Also forgot to tell you I like this girl since I was in my mid teen secretly.
    Just about a month ago she came amd added me on facebook, I usally just troll on some of the things she post up. Then on the day before april fools I ask her for her number. We started to text I some how gave her a nickname Lady Longhair, also try to imply we have a lot of similarities(which we do). I made her picture us being together in the future too. Then right before april fool I told her I would be pretty funny if we put our satus as engage(i believe if you can make female do anything aslong as you habe a good excuse). With that I got away calling her sweety and all that other stuff. I also found out I got like 2 other compatition but I know im killing them.
    So after couple of days of texting(she dont like to talk on the phone) I told herd about the cube and what it is and she told me to do it on her. I said we cant because we can only do it in person or over phone. So I called her we ended up doing it and I threaded the convo for2 hrs because I had to go. The next night she wanted me to call her to teach it to her. I did and we convo for 6hrs until she was really sleepy. The next day we text a little because I was doing something personal. After that I freeze her out for couple of days now is that good? She litterally just texted me as I was typimg this out.
    Info about her she never had love experience she is 19 turning 20. This is do to strict parenting traditional. Im also havimg couple of bdays to attend this weekend. Any advice woild be nice.

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    Default Re: I need some input on this...

    Looks like you have you're in a pretty good position. She does show relatively high investment due to the fact that you could talk to her for so long...think about it, who else does she talk on the phone to for so long? The freezeout, as you may think it or not, was actually a good idea, but make sure to not freeze her out for too long. By Freezing Her Out, you create intrigue, it implies that you are doing things in your life, and she's not the only thing in your life. Text her slowly also, so she in a way is "hanging" on your messages. Be sure to play this in moderation though...disappear too soon, and you leave behind nothing. The fact that she never had a bf before can work to your advantage. If you can get her, then you will stand out to her in her mind, and be unique, and she'll hold you close to her, trust me, I know. The main thing I would do in your situation along with the freezeouts and taking longer time to text would be to capitalize on the attraction. Set up a date with intrigue, and don't look needy. You want to capitalize on this, as attraction in a "texting" situation can change very fast, so capitalize on this. Don't act needy when asking for a date again, in fact I souldn't even be calling it asking. Think of it as you are doing something fun, and she can tag along. An example Vin Dicarlo gives in the "Attraction Code" a good text would be "9:00, your house, fun time, wear something comfortable...this message will self destruct in 30 seconds". This leaves out a lot of the details (which is only something I would do if I built up sufficient comfort which it looks like you did already), which in turn creates intrigue, and doesn't seem needy as you're not sending a 3 page text to her begging her to go on a date with you. Hope this helps

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    Default Re: I need some input on this...

    thank for the advice, also when she texted me she was texting about the other two guys. We haven't texted for almost three days and the first text is how she is annoyed by these two other guys. She even ask me how she should blow off the other guy. Which I complied. The other one they know each other for couple of monthes, she said she don't like him too needy. Seems like I'm about to hit the LJBF zone. What should I do here?

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    Default Re: I need some input on this...

    The best way to get out and to stay out of that zone is to use Kino to your advantage. Freeze her out for a short time first, but before that (I guess this is first), defend the guys, and say that they can't be that bad. She as a result will say "of course they are" and will end up degrading them. This is an indirect way of shooting down the competition, as you don't insult anyone, you make her do the work for you. This of course..is pretty evil. What else I would do is freeze her out as stated above. LJBF I believe is created by too much report with too little sexual tension. Freeze her out, but for a short time, and send one of those date texts. When you do go on the date, you gotta use kino, and that should keep you out of the friend zone, but be sure to go up the escalation ladder correctly in order to avoid rejection of kino.

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    Default Re: I need some input on this...

    Thanks element made some scense. I will do just that!

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    Default Re: I need some input on this...

    I got her going out tonight, wish me luck. I did the thing whereshe is just tagging along.


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