Hey guys, I was talking to one of my friends and I kind of stumbled upon my first date rule when I was giving her my thoughts on dating and wanted to see if you all agreed?
I said since I'm TERRIBLE at "reading" women but I'm not attached to the outcome of a first date, if I want to see the girl again I will always go in for a kiss at some point before we part ways for the night. My logic being I've never gone out with a girl and had her turn away or brush off a kiss if she wanted to see me again. However when I was young and stupid I blew it with a few girls because I didn't make a move and they thought I wasn't interested.
Would you all agree that a girl who is into you is never going to want to wait till the second date kiss so you should always go for it on the first if you want to see her again??
Like I said I'm terrible at reading women so rather than guess I'd rather just make a move. I really don't give a frak if she turns away or blows me off because I feel she's doing me a favor. Either I know she wants to see me again if we kiss or I know she does NOT want to see me again if we don't. Either way I don't have to wonder about it or waste my time trying to set up a second date.