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    kartoshka893 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need some advice on texting this girl i met

    hey guys, i just started up a conversation with a girl i met at my frat house a couple weeks back. we added each other on fb and haven't talked since. today, i messaged her for sh!ts and gigs just to see what can happen out of this. the conversation went as followed:

    me: hey there, stranger. i remember you

    her: Hahha hey. Wats up?

    me: eating and wondering why ive only seen you once at the [frat house]

    her:Hahha [random brother] has forbidden me to come.

    me: ...what? why?

    her: Haha well he didnt tell me personally but he told his brothers not to invite me so I'm pretty sure that means I'm forbidden.

    me: hmmm well thats strange. did you turn him down? haha. anyways, im sorry to hear that. im sure that if you came with me, no one would say a word to either of us haha


    her: Ya I did. Haha! Then they will think we are together


    me: hahaha way to go. yeah, but we know thats not the case, and i personally dont care what others think lol

    her: (: awe cool!

    I haven't responded yet because i have no idea what to say next or how im progressing so far. if you guys can help me out by critiquing my progress so far or tell me what i did wrong that would be great. theres no hurry for me to reply.
    thanks!

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    Default Re: need some advice

    sounds very friendly to me ... nothing special. She likes the way you think, but there's no "attraction" to you....

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    kartoshka893 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need some advice

    well before this conversation, i spoke to this girl for all of 5-10 mins. we talked a little about school and i negged her a few times about how needy she was and such. she seemed to respond well and displayed some IOIs (hair touching, giggling, etc). i went ahead and asked her out

    me: how do i go about seeing more of you

    her:Lol how can you see more of me?

    me: Well I'm free wedensday night. There's an awesome cafe near me and I wanna go there for dinner. You should join me

    her: Nice. I don't work Wednesday so that might work for me. What city is that in?

    me: its in [city]. i was thinking of going around 8-830

    her: okaii. whats it called?

    me: [cafe]. let me get your number so we can take this conversation off of fb haha

    i got her number and im meeting her Wednesday

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    Default Re: need some advice

    I'm not sure about the attraction built between you guys yet, what I would do is try to see her again and you both get a chance to talk. Invite her to lunch in the cafeteria with you or go outside her dorm and see her.

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    kartoshka893 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need some advice

    are there any tips or advice you guys have for my upcoming meeting with her? like how i would go about building attraction. also, should i even call this a date or would that creep her out?

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    Default Re: need some advice

    just message her and ask, "since I haven seen u in a long time, let's grab a coffee/dinner/ (whatever you like...)" and when she saids yes.. jokingly add.. "alright.. perfect! make it a date!"

    in the mean time, tell more jokes and don't text her too much until you see her, to make her more eager to see you...

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    kartoshka893 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need some advice

    thanks a lot!
    so far the text conversation is very short:

    me: hey there, its [me]. here's my number
    her: mkay, helloo

    i havent texted her back. im thinking that i should call it at that for the night. ill text her tomorrow and work out the details of the get together and ill be sure to use your "make it a date" line. ive used it in the past and always got a positive response.


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