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    Default how am i doing?

    i just got this girls number last night and i am currently working on building attraction with her. we agreed to meet this wednesday for dinner, but never got into too much detail about it. i intend to bring it up sometime tomorrow night and work out the details. let me know what you guys think of the texting conversation ive had so far.

    last night (after agreeing to meet on fb and getting her number):
    me: hey there, its [my name]. here's my number.
    her:mkayy, helloo

    (i decided to leave it at that for the night and text her later today in the afternoon)

    me: hey!

    her: helloo

    me: what are you up to this afternoon?

    her: working hbu?

    me: trying not to shoot myself out of boredom in my microbio class haha

    her: haha that sounds like a crazy class. is it mainly lecture?

    me: yeah. and my professor is monotone and puts the class to sleep. we have a lab too but thats not AS bad lol

    her: oh man thats the worst!! hahahaha! a lab sounds fun

    me: they usually are, but all we do in this class is look through microscopes. thank god i;m almost done with this semester

    her: hahaha truue! are you getting grades?

    me: yeah i;m doing pretty well right now. if only i knew my student id number i'd be able to know exactly what my grade is lol

    her: lol!!!! u dont?! hahah how do u take finals?

    me: well ilm only taking one class in this school so i didn't wanna pay for an id. its weird, i have an id number that logs me in, but there is another, shorter number that is only found on the id card. i haven't had any problems yet

    her: hahah nice! thats cool. what school r u at?

    me: im in valley today haha. i also go to smc and moorpark. you're at pierce right?

    her: oh man three places! whats smc? yaa im not taking any classes right now but im hoping to in fall

    me: santa monica college. and yeahhh its a b!tch but after this semester ill be more stable haha. im just finishing up my prereqs. what are you gonna be studying for?

    her: oh nice! i wanna be a vet technician

    me: thats pretty cool. ill take my pets to you one day

    her: hahaha okay. what kinda pets do you have?

    me: i just have one kitten/cat lol. he's awesome. if youre really nice ill let you meet him

    her: hahaha cool. im always nice lmao

    me: lol ok. we'll see. do you have pets?

    (we have both been taking our time sending these texts but after this one she didn't respond for about and hour, so after i finished my class i decided to eject myself out of it)

    me:well thanks for keeping me entertained in class im gonna hit the gym now, so we will talk later

    her: lol np, have fun


    thats the end of that. i feel like its all still very friendly. let me know what you guys think

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    Default Re: how am i doing?

    2 words.. friend zone

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    Default Re: how am i doing?

    Damn. Is there anyway out of it?

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    Default Re: how am i doing?

    the only reason why I said friend zone is the topics are very friendly, the way you guys talked were very casual.. there weren't much attraction building happening...

    anyway out... maybe try some Kino, maybe joke around more, talk more about exotic things ... the get to know her stuff but in a twisted fun way..

    that conversation is how I'd talk to a good friend I'd never date.

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    Default Re: how am i doing?

    thanks a lot for the advice. i have dinner plans with her tomorrow night, thing is i think she might have forgotten. we haven't spoken about it since sunday. i intend to bring it up later tonight when i text her. I know that once I can meet with her face to face it will be easier for me because ill be able to try Kino and other routines that dont really work over the phone. any ideas as to how i should go bringing it up tonight?

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    Default Re: how am i doing?

    call her to confirm, that way it makes you appear more dominant and chickening out by texting...

    I'm going to provide you with an example of a conversation, so hope it helps.. i'm learning myself.. but I feel it went well...

    so this conversation was text messages with a girl who is learning pole and aerial silk dancing for fun ...

    her: hey
    me: it's so gloomy today, i need something or someone to make me happier.
    her: ahah, i would, but i have physio and then pole lesson
    me: that's sound amazing, i want to see your skills.
    her: i have pictures on facebook
    me: fine, be that way .. bye
    her: nooo.. come over to my house then tonight
    me: pick me up too, i like full-service
    her: do you now? :P
    me: we're about to see, and based on what you got to offer me ..
    her: be excited then ..

    i left it at that ....

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    Default Re: how am i doing?

    im definitely gonna call her tonight. i think you did great as well. i like how you completely rejected her when she gave you an unsatisfying answer. you definitely made yourself the prize. well done.

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    Default Re: how am i doing?

    thats how you get the girl to want you, instead of vice versa.. it works like a champion.

    like I said, I never read books or anything, i only learn from going to bars, and learning from failures and seeing success...

    keep me posted on your situations...

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    Default Re: how am i doing?

    Quote Originally Posted by studmuffin52 View Post
    call her to confirm, that way it makes you appear more dominant and chickening out by texting...

    I'm going to provide you with an example of a conversation, so hope it helps.. i'm learning myself.. but I feel it went well...

    so this conversation was text messages with a girl who is learning pole and aerial silk dancing for fun ...

    her: hey
    me: it's so gloomy today, i need something or someone to make me happier.
    her: ahah, i would, but i have physio and then pole lesson
    me: that's sound amazing, i want to see your skills.
    her: i have pictures on facebook
    me: fine, be that way .. bye
    her: nooo.. come over to my house then tonight
    me: pick me up too, i like full-service
    her: do you now? :P
    me: we're about to see, and based on what you got to offer me ..
    her: be excited then ..

    i left it at that ....
    What happened after that? Have you talked to her? Did you get to see her skills?

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    kartoshka893 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: how am i doing?

    well i called her and she didn't pick up. i don't wanna text her so as to not seem needy or unoccupied. if she doesn't respond to the missed call in any way ill ask her tomorrow


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