Hello there and let me just say that i have read the mystery method and it has helped alot. However i have found myself at a University and college bars abound ! i am 25 so i do feel like an old man, all these 21 somethings running around I am seeing that its hard for them to keep a conversation as they arent as intellectually all there ! and was wondering what kind of approach works best. btw i am at CWU if that matters ?