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    CMTheMasterPiece is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    Whats going on guys? I'm new to these forums, but not the game. I got a question and see what you guys think.

    So me and my girl have been together for over a year. We have sex alot. Anyways the other day I drove home cuz I was out of town for a couple of days and she came over. I wanted to have sex and I'm going through the standard foreplay and shit, but when it came down to have sex she didnt want any part of that.

    Ive never been told no to sex after Ive been in a sexual relationship with a woman so this is kind of new for me. So am I doing something wrong? Like does she feel too comfortable in our relationship and dosnt feel the need to keep my interest as much and can turn me down for sex? Or does this happen to other guys and its normal? Also how should I deal with this situation?

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    Jack Greezy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    It could be a lot of reasons, you could have just asked her why.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    Post a reply once you ask her

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    CMTheMasterPiece is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    lol I'm not going to ask why lol

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    Default Re: Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    If you are in a sexual relationship, she should have no problem with you asking. .02

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    Default Re: Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    Quote Originally Posted by CMTheMasterPiece View Post
    lol I'm not going to ask why lol
    You could just Kino her, then go into a make-out and get sexual from there which is easier.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    Dont neg her, don't ask her why not.

    Play with your phone for 10min then start again. If it happens again just repeat.


    Never ever ask her why not or neg her on it!!!!

    She might not want to because she is on her period, unclean, not shaven etc there are a million reasons why she couldn't sleep with you.

    But make it clear through your actions that you are there for sex! You are not an emotional tampon. Your not there to chat and play best friends. Be friendly.,.up to a point

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    CMTheMasterPiece is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    Personally I think asking would be a unalpha move. Its almost saying dont you love me anymore!? Currentlly I'm just acting not as interested in her, as Im actually not. Shes killed some attraction I had for her from the way she handeled the situation. So I havent seen her since because I dont want to right now. Shes calling me at least twice a day since thats happened I answered but dont stay on the phone long and when she texes me I respond but as soon as possible I dont text back when its an appropriate time.

    Im doing this hopefully in a way where she thinks Im loosing interest in her and she never pulls this again.

    Good idea? Bad idea? Why? or why not?

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    Default Re: Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    Well, I have a couple of suggestions. Asking her does not mean that you have to lower yourself to unalpha status. You don't know everything that is going on her mind, and if i were you wouldn't want to know either. But women are emotional, that is they way they are. When the have sex with you, is because there was attraction but also there is an emotional component to it. It is very hard for a women to control those emotions, even with experience under their belt doing this. You can ask in a playful manner to get your answers. There are a couple of tools that i use to know for example a few things about a woman, so i am not left wondering. I will post that in the proper forum section.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

    im in a 3 1/2 years relationship and its been 3 months since we last had sex ,and its not for trying , but im getting turned down all the time , i love her so much and its ripping me apart, explain this ??? , is she cheating on me ?? just not interested ?? all i want to do is make her feel wanted, make love to her show her i care be close to her but all i get is rejection??? ,,,, i buy her flowers , help out around the house, we go out for meals, the only ever time we have sex is when we are away on holiday or a weekend away ???? now she wants to get married


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