Well we were seeing eachother and spoke on the phone for 2 months. She never actually went on many dates with me but spoke to me for nearly everyday for this time. We got on very well, only thing was maybe I was more into her, wanted something serious and she had just come out of a relationship. She did act as if she was more into me at one point though. She told me weeks we were just friends and that was it. I think that week was a bit bad for us a combo of things happened.
This creepy anorexic asian guy with braided hair turned up 3 weeks ago, following her everyday and acting as if he is a big part of her life. He acts like he is into her but seems very feminine and gay. She mentioned him out of nowhere and how he is going to join us on the train. It seemed weird how she just met him one day and was insisting.
I got annoyed saying "why I don't even know him" she was like "he is ok lets just see how it goes" she was insisting I didn't get it. Soon as I met she would make him feel like she had no interest in me(talking to him more,unfriendly etc) meanwhile this guy kept talking to her and whispering in her ear. I would get annoyed but he seemed to catch on that we seeing eachother.
2 weeks later he joins us on the train and is acting different, he was jealous when I was flirting with her and was trying to get rid of me so he could be alone with her, you could see it in his face. She would do weird things too, talk to him more and turn her back to me. Seems to have some kind of respect for him that doesn't show me...and was he was trying to get rid of me and so was she in a way.
He was asking me where am I going, and she did and then she was like "ur going a different way than us" and was pulling a weird face. I said "u trying to get rid of me" and she pulled some other weird face.
The other day one guy was having a private conversation with me and mentioned her name and this guy was behind and looks directly at me as he said her name. Look at me with this piercing stare, so I looked back like wtf and then he went back into the corner and then went to shake my hand.
I shook his hand but later I tried talking to him(not being that friendly) and he brushed me off. So I kinda stormed past him a few times and he could see I was not having his crap.
Now I think he might of mentioned this to her which will cause more problems, especially as earlier that day I mentioned him to her"saying I think that guy likes you he was very determined" and she was defensive like "he is alright, I'm single anyway can't be bothered with relatipnship. What can I do? this guy will make me out to be some bully because I'm alot bigger than him.