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    puatrainee is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Advice request; How do i text her back?

    I'm trying to get an ex back.

    I'm familiar with a lot of the secrets but i need some clarification and quick help for my situation.

    The full story as abbreviated as possible

    together 2 years. A job opportunity that i couldn't pass came up across the country. I took it and moved with plans to have her follow shortly behind. All those plans fell through. Ive been away for 5 months but with a lot of phone contact.

    I wasn't taught back then and did everything wrong. I became needy, a little jealous, asked where she was a lot (though not in a hostile way). we grew apart. Someone else came along that caught her interest and she was honest with me, telling me right away that she had feelings for someone else and ended it. I love her all the more for being so straight with me. I didn't "beg" but i was needy and tried to talk it through logically. I told her that i was coming back and made plans to do so.

    Desperate for advice I came across the Ex2 system. My eyes were opened and I realized everything I messed up with.

    I had already been "needy" for a little less than two days. Not too much obsessive talking, fortunately no begging. It was all very calm but still.. I pray that I havent messed up too much and quickly went to NC.

    Its been 5 days. I get on a plane home one day from now. She texted me "hows things?" I know it hasn't been long enough to talk to her about meeting up as friends or anything like that, but texting drives me crazy. I'm told to just have a short conversation talking positively about things (NOT the relationship) and then be the one to end the conversation. But this is a text! What do I do with it? Its still early. Can I just blow it off? Do I wait before replying? Can I just be like "Hey things are awesome but I'm with people/heading out/going to bed, I'll have to catch you later."

    Thanks in advance for any advice.

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    Default Re: Advice request; How do i text her back?

    Well, it depends whether you really want her back. show interest, pull back, show interest, pull back. Then if you meet up, subtly use PUA. have you read Ross Jefferies Guide to Speed Seduction? I highly reccomend it.
    Last edited by ~F4MOU$~; 05-12-2011 at 02:23 PM.

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    Default Re: Advice request; How do i text her back?

    I ignored the text for the night and she send another this evening with just "?"

    I replied saying that i was out last night and that my phone was blown up by other texts from people back home, excited to hear about my return.

    she asked if i was having fun and I said yes along with asking her whats up.

    She replied with a long text detailing her last night and plans for today. (i wouldnt look TOO MUCH into it, as a lot of her conversations are through texts and they often look more like full length emails)

    I didn't know what else to talk about so i played off that i was busy and had to go.

    So now im back to NC. this part of the process is torture...


    Any thoughts of where i stand?

    Im in the process of looking up speed seduction. Thanks for the advice

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    Default Re: Advice request; How do i text her back?

    Also look at High Tower's Text Game thread. Yeah, you are probably fine with her, but you might be getting in the "friend zone", its hard to tell. Teasingly steer the conversation to more sex related topics, teasing so she can't tell whether your serious or not.Welcome.

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    Default Re: Advice request; How do i text her back?

    update

    she has texted me every day. asking if the flight went well, asking if people are glad that im back home.

    I've ignored one or two and by the next morning she texts again asking or just with "?"


    I don't know what to think of this. Trying really hard not to get my hopes up and think too much of it.

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    Default Re: Advice request; How do i text her back?

    update #2

    some time pasted and sure enough i get another text asking how its going and i act like my usual upbeat self

    she then asks if im "banging anyone" saying that ive been so happy lately that she thought i found someone else.

    I asked if she wanted to talk about it later and said i was busy right now (im at work)

    I want to take this as a big sign that shes still interested and concerned that ive already moved on.

    Am i setting myself up for a big fall, or am i right to see it this way?


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