This stunning girl I've been speaking with for 3 months is hot and cold she likes me but when we meet and go to work together she flirts and that is it and never kisses me. She used to call me everyday and we were like bf/gf. About month ago she told me she didn't want a boyfriend but then she continued to talk dirty/flirt and act alright.
She says she talks to guys on facebook and it's fun getting the attention etc etc. Makes me think she is playing me but at the same time she says she is single and doesn't want a relationship. FWB seems to be more in her mind I think.
We spoke Monday night and she had a few drinks but she seems interested again. Something came up in conversation, and I said "Am I family now" and she goes "do you want to be family" and then I said "you never know, you never know" and she goes "what do you mean you never know" lol
I checked her Facebook mobile uploads and there is a pic of her hugging this guy, while her friend is taking the snap from her car. Pose looked way to romantic plus I've seen the guy flirting with her hard on FB and she flirts back. One message her status was "aww I'm well happy right now" and he wrote under "likewise x" and she put two kisses.
On Monday, she was around my area Tuesday and said last night if she could do something early she will, if not we could a bit later and we will speak. She was really positive and friendly near the end of the call and was like "cya babe, k babe" lol. THEN I phone at about 1:30 pm,nothing,txt her to let me know when she is done no reply, phoned again nothing.
Then on facebook(about 20 minutes after I called her) she said she just got home on her profile status and changed her profile pic to a modified version of the pic with this guy, with his face/body cut out and just her but you see his arms around her waste and a tiny bit of his face.
It just seems like she was doing that to annoy me as she put that picture up when she got back and then it was changed again about 12 hours later.She wrote in her status "Needs a man to look after me, to chill with me to give me cuddles but not to moan......."
Obviously talking bout me cos I tried to contact her she knows I was wondering, plus I do complain alot! I like her alot but her behavior is out of control. On Facebook she says she is off to work and then she txt me a bit later asking me if I was working, I wasn't, It was a bit late anyway.
Txt her again last night saying I was thinking or her and she txts back something irrelevant(as usual) saying how something bad happened to her at work and then asked me if I was working.
I logged in facebook today and saw her on chat, I said hello and she logged out right away. I logged back in 10 minutes later and she logged out again...WTF! when I logged in after she was there for a bit and told one of her friends she was on her way out. She logged off after about 5 minutes.
I don't want to give up, and I also don't want things to be weird for us while we were at work/ We get on, it's just other people getting in between us and she feels she has to make people feel that there is nothing going on and doesn't talkt to me much around certain people. She is a nice girl but confused, how should I deal with her?