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    Ohyea1234 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Cant Read this girl that well

    I've talked to this girl off and on for about 5 months, i like her a lot has all the qualities of the girl i want to be with, but shes sending me a lot of mixed signals (and I am not an expert at how to tell if a girl likes you) so i copied our conversation and give me your guys opinions on what i should go with next

    her:lol you would say that

    Me:lol what are you trying to get at?

    Her:haha noothing

    Me: lol im just sayin it would make my night to see your pretty face :0


    Her:i know i know

    ME:do ya? then you should let me visit

    Her:then i wont get this paperr doneee

    Me:i can help you get it done.

    Her:lol ive heard that one before

    Me: well your topic is pretty easy, we probably could get it done in like an hour and a half

    Her:hahahah

    Me:lol i promise

    Her:hmm

    Me:im alone your alone lets make this a party of 2
    with a paper involved lol

    Her:i dont think that would be a good idea
    my paper is too important lol

    Me:lol im not gonna beg to come over, i was just trying to say i could help you out and hangout with you at the same time

    Her:i know but i just dont think my paper would get done. and i have to be up at 6 45

    Me:think what you want lol

    Her:i will lol

    me:but what you think of me is wrong

    her:how so

    me:everything, you think im just trying to use you.

    Her:isnt that what ever guy does lol
    but i am not saying that about YOU. i am just saying in general

    me:girl id never use you

    Her:it happens.
    to lots of girls lol but i am just looking out for myself . yaaaaknowwww

    me:but to me your not "lots of girls"

    Her:yah and any guy can just say that to a girl
    i am not trying to make you mad lol i am just responding to you with how i feeeel

    me:lol its fine, but im not just any other guy, im the kinda of guy that will call you at 2am just because i miss your voice
    im not out here to break any hearts, and especially not yours britt

    Her:yah i see what you mean
    it is just hard

    me:whats so hard?

    Her:to trust someone and actually believe them
    when i can be perfectly fine with just hanging out with my friends and just having guy friends and not have to worry about a boyfriend
    \buuut i know i cant be like that forever lol

    me:im not asking you to trust me, trust is earned not given, i just want the chance to prove to you that ill treat you like an angel

    her:what if you really get to know me and you absolutely hate me
    and i have already fallen for you,then i am screweeeddd lol
    see, you cant say that kind of stuff because you dont know how it will actually be\

    me:you cant walk around in life asking what if when you can take a chance to make something extrodinary, and that would be an everyday thing with me

    her:you dont get what i am saying
    either that or you just avoided the question lol
    but i think i am about to just go to sleeep
    forget this paper lol

    me:i totally get what your saying.

    her:so does that make ssense?
    kinda like saying,, dont make promises you cant keep. but not exactly
    but idk how else to explain, i hope you understand what i mean

    me:girl i would make sure everyday that you were reminded of the promises i made you

    her:ahh i hate you lol
    why do you say those things

    me:dont lie!

    her:lol

    me:i cant lie but theres nothing i can think about you that doesnt make me smile

    her:=]\

    me:cuz i dont want things to just be good with you i want something extraordinary

    her:aaaaaaaaaaaah



    her:welllpp
    i am going to sleeep
    goooooooooooodnight

    me:but before you go to bed like i said we all take leaps, but your the only one that makes me feel like i can fly. night sweetie

    11:05pm
    her:thanks =]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]] you are pretttttttty specail
    specail lol special

    me:you are too ill tak to you tomorrow im sure. night

    her:goodnight

    what do you guys thinK?

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    Default Re: Cant Read this girl that well

    From what I can tell, you guys are still pretty young, which makes all the difference in what form of tactics you must adopt. In this case, she's interested in you, dude. That's the happy truth. However, I'm going to explain why she's feeling hesitant at the same time. You're just a little beyond the friend zone, and your job now is to escalate it further.

    What I can suggest is to STOP treating her so much like an angel, literally. I mean, you're even calling her by that term, dude. The trick to successfully attracting girls is to avoid putting her on a pedestal, and instead show the control you have in your life. THIS is why she's hesitating. She's the one that lifts me up. The one who's voice I continue to miss and the angel who never fails to make me smile. No, dude. Drop that Mindset. Or at least stop saying it to her. I AM THE ALPHA MALE. I AM THE ONE SHE DESIRES. <--Try that instead.

    Take a good look at your chat. You're making it very clear that you want to go over to her place just to see HER. Never do that, man. Instead, make her want you to come over simply because she wants YOU to come over. SHE should be the one to desire your presence, not the other way around.

    Judging by her words, you've still got a good chance to try again. Next time, adopt a bit of the Cocky-Funny attitude - tease her just a bit more and stop being so nice. This is so you can eliminate the danger of her putting you in the Friend Zone once and for all. Create a bit more rapport between the two of you; make her want MORE OF YOU. In fact, try to get it to the point where she ends up INVITING YOU to her place. Try to end the conversations first, even when it's just starting to get good. In fact, LOOK FORWARD to ending it while it's getting good to leave her wanting more.

    She already sees the "potential" in you, dude. Now take it a step further. It may take a bit of practice and experimentation, but I'm very sure you'll get it if you keep at it. Good luck.
    Last edited by TheBlackWolf; 05-17-2011 at 04:56 AM.

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    Default Re: Cant Read this girl that well

    im really quite good at pulling off the cocky funny attitude, but im really not familiar with the rapport term.

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    Default Re: Cant Read this girl that well

    also how can i give the mentality that im the prize??

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    Default Re: Cant Read this girl that well

    Quote Originally Posted by Ohyea1234 View Post
    im really quite good at pulling off the cocky funny attitude, but im really not familiar with the rapport term.
    Trying clicking the term rapport...

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    Default Re: Cant Read this girl that well

    haha my bad my bad, im not used to this site yet! :P

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    Default Re: Cant Read this girl that well

    Don't be so clingy. I feel like you're almost smothering her. Every girl is the same no matter what you think, so just treat her like you treat every other girl. During a intense conversation like this take a break, turn off your phone for a half hour, turn it back on then text her back. I believe in you. I look forward to the field report saying you got her.


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