I've talked to this girl off and on for about 5 months, i like her a lot has all the qualities of the girl i want to be with, but shes sending me a lot of mixed signals (and I am not an expert at how to tell if a girl likes you) so i copied our conversation and give me your guys opinions on what i should go with next
her:lol you would say that
Me:lol what are you trying to get at?
Me: lol im just sayin it would make my night to see your pretty face :0
Her:i know i know
ME:do ya? then you should let me visit
Her:then i wont get this paperr doneee
Me:i can help you get it done.
Her:lol ive heard that one before
Me: well your topic is pretty easy, we probably could get it done in like an hour and a half
Me:lol i promise
Me:im alone your alone lets make this a party of 2
with a paper involved lol
Her:i dont think that would be a good idea
my paper is too important lol
Me:lol im not gonna beg to come over, i was just trying to say i could help you out and hangout with you at the same time
Her:i know but i just dont think my paper would get done. and i have to be up at 6 45
Me:think what you want lol
Her:i will lol
me:but what you think of me is wrong
me:everything, you think im just trying to use you.
Her:isnt that what ever guy does lol
but i am not saying that about YOU. i am just saying in general
me:girl id never use you
to lots of girls lol but i am just looking out for myself . yaaaaknowwww
me:but to me your not "lots of girls"
Her:yah and any guy can just say that to a girl
i am not trying to make you mad lol i am just responding to you with how i feeeel
me:lol its fine, but im not just any other guy, im the kinda of guy that will call you at 2am just because i miss your voice
im not out here to break any hearts, and especially not yours britt
Her:yah i see what you mean
it is just hard
me:whats so hard?
Her:to trust someone and actually believe them
when i can be perfectly fine with just hanging out with my friends and just having guy friends and not have to worry about a boyfriend
\buuut i know i cant be like that forever lol
me:im not asking you to trust me, trust is earned not given, i just want the chance to prove to you that ill treat you like an angel
her:what if you really get to know me and you absolutely hate me
and i have already fallen for you,then i am screweeeddd lol
see, you cant say that kind of stuff because you dont know how it will actually be\
me:you cant walk around in life asking what if when you can take a chance to make something extrodinary, and that would be an everyday thing with me
her:you dont get what i am saying
either that or you just avoided the question lol
but i think i am about to just go to sleeep
forget this paper lol
me:i totally get what your saying.
her:so does that make ssense?
kinda like saying,, dont make promises you cant keep. but not exactly
but idk how else to explain, i hope you understand what i mean
me:girl i would make sure everyday that you were reminded of the promises i made you
her:ahh i hate you lol
why do you say those things
me:i cant lie but theres nothing i can think about you that doesnt make me smile
me:cuz i dont want things to just be good with you i want something extraordinary
i am going to sleeep
me:but before you go to bed like i said we all take leaps, but your the only one that makes me feel like i can fly. night sweetie
her:thanks =]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]] you are pretttttttty specail
specail lol special
me:you are too ill tak to you tomorrow im sure. night
what do you guys thinK?