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  1. #31
    joerodeo25 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Save me! (Already opened about to lose it!)

    I really don't see a real problem. I say continue just as you were. If she doesn't follow suite, screw it.

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    Konnect Life is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Save me! (Already opened about to lose it!)

    Quote Originally Posted by JonTylerDiPrince View Post

    But don't play games. You don't need to pretend to cover for your actions (i.e. by saying you wanted to hang out).

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    LOL, but this is PRECISELY what people are doing the moment they start doing or pretending to do/be anything other than what they know they're truly feeling inside.


    ANYTHING that teaches you to alter your behavior or any changes you make to get better results is game play. This includes everything from dressing up and pretending to be this perfect innocent professional person to get a job to acting a certain way to pick up women to trying to cleaning up your entire house whenever visitors come over to leaving out any jobs you got fired from on an application or even not commenting or liking a post you see on facebook for some personal reason when you know damn well you want to, or even ripping off the price tag off of something so no one will know what you paid for it, etc.

    Another example would be holding back from texting a girl when you know you want to do it or having to hold back from saying something that naturally comes to mind because you know it's the wrong thing to say.


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    Once you start doing or trying to be anything that's outside of what your natural feelings desire for you to do with an agenda behind it, the game play has already started. You're playing to win.


    You cannot get through life without playing games. If this were possible, then no one would have to act, hide, pretend, or change themselves, etc. to receive a desired outcome in any area of life (and none of these rules would exist).

  3. #33
    Konnect Life is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Save me! (Already opened about to lose it!)

    Actually, just noticed that this is an old post. Not sure how I ran into it.

    But for extreme newbies (or people have had an extremely difficult time finding success with getting things right with women), I would recommend not starting off by seeking advice on any forum because it will come across as very discouraging when you find out that everything you're naturally doing and feeling is wrong and then even worse when you see a large tsunami of rules and regulations on what you must learn, do, and how you must be in order to succeed. I can handle it - but that's because I already personally learned a lot of this from other sources and tested many things in real life before coming here to this forum. Therefore, I get the luxury of looking at some things on here and feeling good because I already know how to naturally do some of the things posted here rather than coming here and seeing that everything I naturally feel and desire is wrong.

    I'd recommend that you learn privately first with materials from dating gurus of your preference and then join a forum later once you have a few things from those programs mastered, even if it's a year or two later. This way you wont have to have that feeling of being a fourth grader stuck in an advanced college course where people expect you to see and understand things at their college level. Another good thing to avoid is getting into a situation first AND THEN posting about it THEN having to wait for a response (that may or may not help you) before you can go any further. That's like trying to learn to fly a plane or be a dj - ONCE YOU'VE ALREADY taken off or started playing you first song and hoping that people will stir you in the right direction in a timely matter.

    I don't know what else to say other than be prepared to screw up a lot before you find success (in all areas of life when it comes to self-improvement). I'm 8 years into this and STILL trying. Some people never get it figured out. There are also women out there studying their female dating advice trying to figure out how to attract and keep men. Everybody's lookin' for something. Just know that if someone like me, who is on the Autism Spectrum, can get to the level of success I am currently at, then you can, too. It will take time, though. If you don't have any mental disorder that makes you overanalyze or over-think and causes you to be sensitive, logical, and have a hard time understanding social relationships, count your blessings. You'll learn quicker. And no, Social Anxiety Disorder is technically not a "mental disorder" because that can be cured (although Social Anxiety can absolutely murder any chances you have with women and seem impossible to overcome - and if you have that, then I would stay away from forums and join the Social Anxiety Support Pages on facebook. Those with Aspergers can search for the Asperger / Autism support pages on facebook. There are also places for ADHD, OCD, Depression, and other things as well).

    Good luck.


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