Hey guys, this is my first time posting so if I made any mistakes I would love for you to give me a heads up on how to improve and thank you for taking the time to read this thread. I would just like to start off that I don't have that much experience with the whole PUA thing and its all new to me, but thought I would try it out on this solid HB8[brunette 8D]
Ok so I met her just a few weeks ago after skipping my dreaded animation class. I went to the cafeteria and saw one of my friends sitting in a table so I thought "Hey why not?". As soon as i sat down I noticed 2 HB. A short haired red head and the brunette. After my friend greeted me he introduced to me to the table, there was two other boys sitting there as well.
I immediately started talking to the red head asked her a few questions about herself, did the same with the brunette and then I talked to the dudes after. I started then skipping class for about a week and a half; greeting and talking with both the red head and brunette. I soon found out that one of the boys liked the red head, and I didn't feel like dealing with that issue so I focused my efforts on the brunette.
I didnt Number Close on any of them yet since there was always a bunch of dudes there. Never actually got a 1 on 1 convo with any of them, and when I do someone has to add their 2 cent into our convo. On Friday there was this courtyard-cookout at my school where a bunch of people make amazing food that you eat and pretty much chill and hangout. I went there with a group of my friends, and we ate and had a bunch of laughs. Thats when I noticed, literally 3 hours after the cookoff started the brunette walking in.
By this time there is no food left and if there was it was just left overs. I caught her from the corner of my eye looking at me as she went to sit down in a table. I was playing 21 with my friends and waiting a few more games before making my move.
I got up (losing the last two rounds) saying I dont feel like working OT(overtime) to cover my loss in a jokingly manner. I walked straight toward her and she did make eye contact and smiled. I said "Hey! Glad you can make it. Your a bit late though..." And I pointed to all the empty food trays. She laughed and we continued this convo for awhile.
I remember my friend telling me how there was a football game going on and I invited her to come watch with me; she said yes. We walked to the bleachers and continued to have a nice convo. I made eye contact whenever I talked or when she was saying something worth lessening to.Although we made no body contact throughout the time we were talking. She also mentioned how she doesnt have a boyfriend when I asked her about her boyfriend.
She then told me how her mom is coming to get her and she made it sound like it was a bad thing. I then asked her for her number; which she told me then she asked for mine. After that we continued our convo until she got a text from her mom telling her that shes here. She got up and looked at me and told me bye bye. She stood there for a good 5 seconds and I just turned to look at her and said "Later" with a smile. I didnt really feel like walking her there if thats what she intended to do.
About 40minutes later i get text from her;
HB 8:12pm: Heyy, it's HB (:
ME 8:43pm: Lol hey hows church going?( i remember her mentioning going to church)
HB 9:33pm: I'm on my way home because my mom didnt wanna stay. ;( What are you up to.?
ME: 9:43pm: And thats a good thing?
HB 9:46pm: Yes because I love going to church. Loll :b
ME 10:00pm: Thats a good thing i guess Just in case the world end tomorrow (the whole 5/21/11 "world ending"scare)
HB 10:11pm: Its not going to end tomorrow. -_-
ME 10:15pm: haha i know So what are you gonna end up doing when you get home?
HB 11:13pm: Well, I'm watching a movie right now. :b Hehe. ^.^ ME 11:27pm: Awesome, which movie?
HB 11:40pm: My sisters keeper.
ME 12:47am: Never heard of it. Im gonna go to bed, night HB
I went the whole next day not texting her. Until Sunday morning at around 12pm-ish I sent her a "Good morning" text but didnt get any reply from her. Thats when I decided not to text/talk to her or see her at lunch for the next couple of days. Thats also when I found about this website and decided to try out gunsnglory ultimate texting guide which I give him props for making.
The textconvo ended up going like this-
ME 5:47pm: Hey there :P
HB 5:48pm: Hello. (:
ME 6:13pm: So what are you up to?
HB 6:14pm: On my way to West Haven(we live in CT) How about yourself.?
ME 6:29pm: On no..How many animals did you end up running over on your way over there?
HB 6:29pm: What do you mean.? Loll.
ME 6:36pm: Its a joke lol :P Must be a very boring ride over there
HB 6:37pm: Well I saw a dead racoon. And not really. Thats why theres a radio that I can sing along to.!!!
ME 6:57pm: As long as your not trying to sing along a techno song your all set then
So why do you even have to go to west haven?
HB 7:12pm: Hahaa, naaahh. Because I was at my vocal lessons. Now im on my way back. :b
ME 7:29pm: Your being boring. Cant you at least sound excited about those fun vocal lessons, lol!
HB 7:31pm: No.
I mean, they help me a lot with my voice and stuff. And im starting to sing opera, so I guess I can be.
Hahaa. How come you didnt skip today.??
HB 7:32pm: Or the past few days.?
ME 7:46pm: Just dont become over weight like those opera singers at those plays..I've been busy trying to hand in the missing work i owe -.-(my exusee for not wanting to see her) I bet you missed me
HB 7:48pm: Haha, I'm not an opera singer. I'm just doing it for fun and to have more control over my voice (:
ME 8:02pm: Whatever works then; My boss is getting mad at me texting lol, I'll talk to you later :P
HB 8:07pm: Loll, sorryyyy, I didnt know you work...? Okeyy. Take care.
I was actually at work but my boss could care less whether I text or not. I just decided to eject the convo at that point. I would really like to know what to do next. Should I skip my animation class to go see her or hold off? Should I continue to text her or not? And any other pointers/tips you guys have. Thanks again for taking the time to read this and im looking forward to hear what you have to say